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Is it over? [FR]

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nyuuji
May 13, 2018
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Hi, I'm 24 and have a 5 month old son with my girlfriend.

Adding to the constant fights and the time she pushed me away in the pregnancy. A little story on how I think I ruined the relationship.

We recently had a huge fight because she told me she feels like i don't really love her. I argued against that and told her am doing all this shit around the house and caring for our son, how could I not love you?

Of course it escalated because she argued against that and I got pissed. After that I took a shower while she read messages on my phone.

She found some texts I sent to my friend where I vented about her and those constant fights.

Of course she totally blows up and starts screaming at me.

Same day in the evening we have a second fight were whe both break out in tears and I'm telling her I'm not sure if don't love her anymore.

After this fight she finds me deleting messages to my friend where I vent about her.

A third fight ensues.

We made up again after me crying and telling her that I wouldn't want to ever lose her.

A few days later out of the blue she asks me if I'm faithful to her. Like a broken record I defend against it because nothing ever happened, but she doesn't believe me. She texts my stoner friend with my phone and asks him if he remembers the one time where I told him I was unfaithful to my girlfriend.

He says "yeah what about it"? She screenshotted this conversation and sent it to her phone.

She screams at me, takes the kid, my car and runs off.

I know that I'm acting like a total beta and that everything that has happened is my fault for not being able to lead her or putting up any boundaries.

I really thought that I found a unicorn, but after I failed to lead my family everything went downhill. I was a yes guy and totally operated in her frame.

My gut says that this relationship is totally over. The only thing I can save is myself and the relationship to my son.

Self improvement, lifting weights, running, Hobbys and reading Eckhart Tolles books are helping me to live through this situation.

I think this will be the point where I have to let go and start over.

What do you guys think about it, should I call it quits?

And I really need your guys advice on this.


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Title Is it over? [FR]
Author nyuuji
Upvotes 6
Comments 22
Date 13 May 2018 11:36 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/204502
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/8j7xnq/is_it_over_fr/
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[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy

DNA test would be the first thing I do.

Girlfriend? Who the fuck cares beyond that. You are a 24 year old faggot with his whole life ahead of you.

Just for the love of all, dont double down and put a ring on it.

[–]matrixtospartanatLVRed Beret14 points15 points  (6 children) | Copy

And just for the record, what is your new favorite brand of condom, since the last one failed you?

It would be easy to pull your head out of your ass, but you have to pull it out of HER ass first.

Look...

MRP builds the man, not the woman or the relationship.

Whether you want to stay with this one, or another, the work is exactly the same.

Women respond to masculinity.

Shitty women, broken women, feminist women, they have all been biologically programmed for millennia to respond to masculinity.

60 years of feminism has fucked up the gender roles and how we superficially relate to each other, but feminism has not and can not overwrite millennia of biological evolution at the dna level.

And THAT, my fucked up little friend, is why this shit works.

If you are here to fix your girlfriend, you have already failed.

If you are here to save your relationship, you have already failed.

If you are here to become a man that other men want to be, and other women want to fuck, then you are in the right place.

You are a whining, loser, worthless, piece of shit.

And you can change all of that in a year.

It’s your life, your time, and your resources

Spend them wisely. Based on your recent history, wisely may come hard to you.

When you hit your late 30’s is when you will hit your overall peak, or not. It is COMPLETELY up to you.

Now, time to get your shit together, grow a pair with hair, educate yourself, determine if you want to be a masculine man or the beta cuck you are now; serving the gynocracy through the feminine imperative.

I’m more than twice your age.

I would trade places with you in a heartbeat and get back decades of my life.

Your shit is fixable.

Your mission, should you decide to accept it, is to loose the bonds of mental slavery (feminist imperative), become a masculine man, and live your life like few others can.

So, it’s time to GET TO FUCKING WORK,

or,

GTFO

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red10 points11 points  (5 children) | Copy

Just for the record.

I read every single one of your posts.

IN BILLY MAYS VOICE

And it is fucking glorious.

Oxyclean these faggots.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I see this guy.

[–]matrixtospartanatLVRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah.

Only...

I don’t wear a tie.

😝

[–]The_LitzRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Leonides the Spartan on a bad day.

[–]matrixtospartanatLVRed Beret0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I’m going for a Chris Farley delivery.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

In a VAN, down by the RIVER.

[–]TaipanshimshonRed Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

you argued with a woman. dont do that.

[–]screechhaterRed Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Flat out- who gives a fuck if the drama queen leaves ??

Paternity test.

Lift like a mother fucket. Read and read.

Hobbies, night life. Get on with your life. Quit texting about your shit. Talk in person

[–]BobbyPeru2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

There’s this thing over there ——->

Called the sidebar

You should totally check it out

[–]Tiway222 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

  1. Don’t let her use your phone wtf
  2. Stop DEERing
  3. When she says you dont care/love don’t qualify yourself. A&A. Change subject.

You’re totally whipped by this girl dude. You gotta change.

[–]man_in_the_worldRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You are mentally and behaviorally a woman. But at least your LTR is also a woman.

Read the MRP sidebar, join the weekly OYS thread, and begin the long process of learning to behave and think like a man instead of like a woman. If you become a man, she will likely become a good woman, for you.

[–]Big_Daddy_PDX1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

So you’ve really done nothing related to TRP or MRP?
Take a breath, relax, STFU, read the sidebar, and lift for Christ sakes.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

next time i won't put my fist through the drywall

[–]simbarlionRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I can't tell if you really cheated or not.... Assuming not, you have just failed some comfort and shit tests and are a total pussy.

Otherwise I think you could make it, if you wanted too. May as well give it a crack. Give it another shot kimosabe.

[–]beardolfo1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

1 - Don't let her use your phone, use a passcode or something!!! 2 - Get a DNA/Paternity test 3 - Lift 4 - Read the sidebar

[–]mty_green_go1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Couple of things 1) an alpha male never bitches about his woman to anyone because it is and was his choice to have her. You chose her, you should never complain about her-- its very unmanly. If you must, share a few stories IRL over a beer or something but that's it.

2) Put a passcode on your phone its 2018. This should be a boundary since day 1. For fuck's sake

3) Don't cry it's very unbecoming of a man

4) If she takes the kid first, you're usually pretty fucked. Gather evidence she is trying to take your kid and see an attorney and have an emergency motion filed to have a court order preventing her from taking the kid away.

If she takes the kid usually there is nothing you can do until a divorce hearing if she has already left unless you can show she has history of drugs, instability, etc. Since you're not married it makes it extra hard to get your kids back if she runs away. You can text her and try to ask leading questins like "why are you taking my son away from me", or "why did you kidnap our son?" ... "your false beliefs and paranoia arent justification for kidnapping our son which I provide 90% support for.."

something lke that, enough evidence if you can get her and the kid back for a few days, have an emergency motion filed preventing her from taking the kid.

Otherwise your last option is to become a complete and utter pushover and hand over your balls because you fucked up really bad

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It's been said before, but worth repeating get a DNA test before investing to heavily into your son. She pushed you away, because you were in her frame totally. To an RP guy, that would not have happened unless the kids is some one elses sperm.

The maxim about it's easier to start over than try to salvage a poor deal seems to come to mind here.

The kid... well if it's yours then expect to pay child support. Make sure to share your story, so other guys your age don't F-up the same way.



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