Hi all. Second marriage for me. I'm 40 she's 41. I'm 6'1" 225 lbs and in good shape. Wife and I work out regularly. Everything in my current marriage is awesome, except my ex wife, who is a BPD psycho that I gave 2 kids with, has tried everything in her power to make it miserable for us. Divorcing that psycho bitch is what steered me to the red pill, which happened a few years back. I've known my current wife a couple of years. In the beginning she was a plate that ended up being a good one and worth an LTR. She's not perfect, but she's good to me. Anyway, ex wife has been a bitch to her and any previous woman I dated. Ex is difficult. She's broken into my home a few times, vandalized stuff, kicked and dented my car. I've had her arrested a couple times and pressesd charges. Currently have a protective order as well on her, because she broke into my and my wife's home and vandalized a bunch of stuff and is pending felony charges. My wife and I bought and read Paul Elam's book "Say Good Bye to Crazy" and it's changed our whole strategy in dealing with this psycho. I feel I manage the crazy ex well now and her poison into my current relationship has been minimized. However, my ex has been begging and pleading through her attorney and mine for us to drop the charges so she won't be convicted of a felony. My approach to that is no fucking way. That bitch chose the behavior, now she can suffer the consequences. Also, playing hard ball with her was the only thing that has helped me manage her. My lawyer urges me sometimes to consider working with my ex, which infuriates my current wife (I understand why). I ALWAYS 100% of the time shut her down and stone wall, but my current wife occasionally says after hearing my attorney suggest that, "you tell your lawyer that she'll be representing you in a second divorce if you let her off". For me, that's a shit test that when it's come up, I usually ignore or make a comment like "if I was dumb enough to listen to my attorney, at least you could leave and divorce me, but I would NEVER escape that bitch if I let her walk on me" then I laugh it off. Is this a good way to handle comments like This? Thoughts?
Adder: I was smart enough to get a prenup with current wife!