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Ex wife / new wife battles

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March 27, 2018
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Hi all. Second marriage for me. I'm 40 she's 41. I'm 6'1" 225 lbs and in good shape. Wife and I work out regularly. Everything in my current marriage is awesome, except my ex wife, who is a BPD psycho that I gave 2 kids with, has tried everything in her power to make it miserable for us. Divorcing that psycho bitch is what steered me to the red pill, which happened a few years back. I've known my current wife a couple of years. In the beginning she was a plate that ended up being a good one and worth an LTR. She's not perfect, but she's good to me. Anyway, ex wife has been a bitch to her and any previous woman I dated. Ex is difficult. She's broken into my home a few times, vandalized stuff, kicked and dented my car. I've had her arrested a couple times and pressesd charges. Currently have a protective order as well on her, because she broke into my and my wife's home and vandalized a bunch of stuff and is pending felony charges. My wife and I bought and read Paul Elam's book "Say Good Bye to Crazy" and it's changed our whole strategy in dealing with this psycho. I feel I manage the crazy ex well now and her poison into my current relationship has been minimized. However, my ex has been begging and pleading through her attorney and mine for us to drop the charges so she won't be convicted of a felony. My approach to that is no fucking way. That bitch chose the behavior, now she can suffer the consequences. Also, playing hard ball with her was the only thing that has helped me manage her. My lawyer urges me sometimes to consider working with my ex, which infuriates my current wife (I understand why). I ALWAYS 100% of the time shut her down and stone wall, but my current wife occasionally says after hearing my attorney suggest that, "you tell your lawyer that she'll be representing you in a second divorce if you let her off". For me, that's a shit test that when it's come up, I usually ignore or make a comment like "if I was dumb enough to listen to my attorney, at least you could leave and divorce me, but I would NEVER escape that bitch if I let her walk on me" then I laugh it off. Is this a good way to handle comments like This? Thoughts?

Adder: I was smart enough to get a prenup with current wife!


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Title Ex wife / new wife battles
Author mars-awake
Upvotes 8
Comments 17
Date 27 March 2018 06:05 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/204674
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/87kmmt/ex_wife_new_wife_battles/
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[–]Rian_StoneMod / Red Beret9 points10 points  (5 children) | Copy

k

[–]BobbyPeru1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

We’ll have to believe he’s in good shape with no lift numbers.

[–]ex_addict_broRed Beret0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Just chimed in to let you know I've read this post and I'm not even fucking touching it with a 7-feet long pole.

[–]BobbyPeru0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I didn’t get past the part where he said he’s in good shape.

[–]ex_addict_broRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You're better than me, for me it was that "second marriage" part that put me off.

[–]RedPill-BlackLotusRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Nobody posts videos of their lifts or pictures of themselves without their shirts on. All the numbers are bullshit.

[–]Trtntrenbrah6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Your 2nd wife has more balls than you currently do from the sound of it.

[–]UEMcGillI am become McGill, Destroyer of Blue Pill6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

You need to read more to remind you of some redpill truths.

First, always crush an enemy completely. By allowing the felony charges to go through you can likely get this woman out of your life for hopefully the time she's in jail. More importantly I hope you have full custody out of this.

Second, your new wife should always support your mission. Don't let her dictate the direction the ship is taking. What are her reasons for this last second compassion? Is she offering you new advice or fighting for command?

When you talk of your ex wife does your new wife see you being petty and vindictive or as the Alpha Provider you need to be.

I suspect the truth lies somewhere in there.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

Paragraphs.

Red pill, yet you get remarried at 40 to an OLDER woman.

Lacking enough frame to keep ex-wife and wife apart.

Then, you hamster about not wanting her locked up.

You still care about managing her.

Finally, you think you are smart cause you got a prenup for the SECOND marriage.

What part of red pill do you believe you understood the concept of?

[–]ex_addict_broRed Beret2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I usually ignore or make a comment like "if I was dumb enough to listen to my attorney, at least you could leave and divorce me, but I would NEVER escape that bitch if I let her walk on me" then I laugh it off. Is this a good way to handle comments like This

jesus christ, that sentence is so convoluted I've lost you after 2nd comma

"k."

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMod / Red Beret3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

And why did you get married again?

[–]InChargeManRed Beret1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Masochist

[–]TaipanshimshonRed Beret4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Ego

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMod / Red Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Some people like to make the same mistakes over and over. Definition of insanity.

[–]WesternhagenWinner0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

My lawyer urges me sometimes to consider working with my ex

Meaning what, exactly? What is there to "work with"? She is supposed to stop committing crimes and harassing you, and you are supposed to do what, exactly, to "work with" her on that?

[–]screechhaterRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

"However, my ex has been begging and pleading through her attorney and mine for us to drop the charges so she won't be convicted of a felony."So she broke the law and wants a pass ?"My approach to that is no fucking way."

And, so ?

You are one weak mother fucker, walked on by your ex and now momma- (current wife) has to hold your balls up in her hand for you

[–]Lansky6280 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Your second wife is strong willed and doesn't put up with bullshit, she also doesn't want a man who puts up with bullshit. Be grateful you found a woman as strong as her who is willing to put up with the ex wife. Strong men shouldn't take bullshit, strong women shouldn't either. She said it in a way that sounded strange, identify the intention not her word choice.



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