Hello everyone, i have a situation i'd like some input on how to handle.
Me(30m) and my girl(30f), LTR for 6 months. Overall relationship is solid, although she makes some power struggles from time to time, as i am her first Red-Pilled boyfriend. You see, all her exes were treating her on a pedestal (her words). She enjoys my leadership and initiative, even though she makes fake-complaints from time to time. Sex is AMAZING, she initiates half the time, cooks, runs errands for me etc. A week ago, she did something that i didn't not really like, but it was not something serious. I did not say anything so as not to appear needy. The following day we met at a bar with some friends, and instead of going to her place or mine afterwards, i called it off saying that i was tired from my day trip (which i was). I wanted her to connect that behavior to my lack of presence you see.
A week goes by, in which we regularly meet, have great sex and spend time together. We go to another bar together, and afterwards instead of coming to my place she keeps asking me what happened that night, why i didn't come over etc etc. I go Broken Record and keep repeating that i was tired, she kept pushing it, so without any sign of frustration i tell her calmly that i wont keep talking about trivial stuff and i tell her to go rest if she feels tired. She sent me a goodnight message afterwards.
Honestly, i am not butthurt in any way, BUT i don't want to let such behaviors without consequence. How do i handle this?
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