You don't need our permission to do something. Been seeing a lot of posts asking what to do in x situation. What would Chad do? Who fucking cares. I'm guilty of this kind of thinking too. Becoming decisive is a key step.
You learned about the scientific method back in the day. Consider your problem, make a decision, observe your results, then post those. That is far more valuable to you and this sub than asking someone else what to do. They can only tell you what has and hasn't worked for them, and when you're being a bitch. None of us have any idea what the right answer for you is. You'll know when you find it though, you'll feel that "Wow, I get it," for a moment.
Adopt your mindset and values that agree with you from this sub, don't force it to be the hive mind that controls your fucking life.
Don't use this as an excuse to make a bunch of nuclear decisions. Somewhere deep down you know when you're ready to stop shutting the fuck up. It's probably not right now. Be calculated until you can trust your instincts.