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September 1, 2016

You don't need our permission to do something. Been seeing a lot of posts asking what to do in x situation. What would Chad do? Who fucking cares. I'm guilty of this kind of thinking too. Becoming decisive is a key step.

You learned about the scientific method back in the day. Consider your problem, make a decision, observe your results, then post those. That is far more valuable to you and this sub than asking someone else what to do. They can only tell you what has and hasn't worked for them, and when you're being a bitch. None of us have any idea what the right answer for you is. You'll know when you find it though, you'll feel that "Wow, I get it," for a moment.

Adopt your mindset and values that agree with you from this sub, don't force it to be the hive mind that controls your fucking life.

Don't use this as an excuse to make a bunch of nuclear decisions. Somewhere deep down you know when you're ready to stop shutting the fuck up. It's probably not right now. Be calculated until you can trust your instincts.

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Author blass_aster
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Date 01 September 2016 03:11 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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[–]anythingincRed Beret6 points7 points  (8 children) | Copy

Everything you said is true.

But imagine you've been in your wife's frame for decades. Imagine you just unplugged. Imagine you came here today from deadbedrooms or relationships instead of the manosphere and your world is shattered and nothing makes sense and you feel like your marriage, your life, is on the line.

Is THIS fucking real life?!?! Is ANY of this real? I was told to BE MYSELF?!? I thought we were married and life was supposed to be great and I didn't have to be THAT guy anymore?!?!

Yeah, those guys are going to reach out, those guys have victim puke they need to purge before they can knuckle down. Some guys have had their metaphorical legs blown off and it is okay to want to question how to walk again and when to take a shit. You, yourself browse here for some reason. If you don't want to wade through newly unplugged dudes' existential crisis then limit yourself to the more meta discussions in /r/marriedredpill or maybe just make comments over at Rational Male or Heartiste. The barrier of entry to this sub is low for a reason, because a man can fall pretty low.

Telling Neo to bend the spoon before he can jump between buildings doesn't help anyone. We're all happy that you are starting to "just get it" but don't shit down the ladder. You're young, 21, I'm sure it seems impossible to you that there are men twice your age, with wives and families and financial responsibilities...and real fucking repercussions, that are scared of shit tests, that worry about their frame, that are scared to go through the levels of dread. Shit tests and comfort tests and frame and dread help you game your college LTR, not to discount that, I envy you, but there are men here who are in many ways, fighting for their lives, and it is okay to be terrified, intimidated, and unsure at first.

[–]sexyshoulderdevil75% Liquid Sarcasm1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

There you go channeling some Jacktenofhearts again... He'd like you I bet.

[–]anythingincRed Beret0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Jackten never responded to my love letter to meet after class...should I up my comfort game or use more dread?

Just notice me senpai :(

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

There's only 3 reasons I think you may not be jack10ofhearts

  1. not enough character limit posts
  2. you don't hate me
  3. you engage people on your posts after they are made

But I can't shake the suspicion

[–]sexyshoulderdevil75% Liquid Sarcasm0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Oh so you are the one... You upped the dread levels too fast...nuked the relationship...Jack10 cut bait. We warned not to go all Red Pill one ever listens.

[–]screechhaterRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fear of the unknown and fear of consequences for your change in direction can be paralyzingly difficult. But, if you put in the work you will be sble to deal with those reactions and tuber lance ahead

In many posters questions and statements I see a platos cave mentality. Let go and do the work Apply the principles and be free

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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