Is it normal to NOT get shit tested?

TRP8myfeels · 2019-01-27T20:32:01+00:00

Some women see value and respect it. They had good father and mother probably or it was a fluke.

I've hardly been shit tested but I'm a snowflake with high social proof. Usually average dudes get shit tests from average women. There are unique cases but as a general rule she is too low value or you are very high value.

Kpwn88 · 2019-01-27T20:16:09+00:00

Here's the deal. You two just started dating and in the honeymoon phase. You passed a couple of shit tests, and because you show outcome independence her dread is high... for now. You want a cookie?

Don't get complacent and keep your ego in check. She will get more comfortable and she will shit test again. You didn't find a unicorn and you sure as hell aren't special.

Go lift and read, you're still have a lot of work to do.

_do_not_read_this_ · 2019-01-27T21:26:49+00:00

She agrees to do whatever I want to do, eat, watch and go. She goes as far as to ask me what she should get to eat at a restaurant.

... trying to figure out what the problem is here ...

Seriously though, she recognizes that you've much higher SMV than her, so she *doesn't* want to do anything to piss you off. It could also mean you're just very compatible in your personalities.

All this "shit testing" stuff, a lot of it is for the younger kids, and for dealing with situations at clubs where they're trying to pull chicks for easy lays. Take some of this TRP stuff with a grain of salt.

If you like her, ignore *most* of what you read on this board and just go out and have fun. She'll shit test you at some point, but not like you read about here, it will be more subtle and mature.

Melanoma_man · 2019-01-27T19:32:32+00:00

She seems far too agreeable and likely to cheat.

SeasonedRP · 2019-01-27T23:44:05+00:00

Is she about your age? She's likely sees you as her best option and wants to lock you down. A woman like her might not do much in the way of shit testing until after marriage, unless she finds what she perceives as a better option. In her case, a better option might be a guy who is eager to get married. If you marry her or she finds another option, you can expect the shit tests to start coming your way. Divorcees who are looking to remarry tend to be very agreeable and complimentary, but they go back to acting like normal women once they marry or have an opportunity to branch swing. I don't know this, but can imagine that if a guy does a lot of beta things that lower attraction, once such a woman married the guy, the shit testing would be twice as bad.

chazthundergut · 2019-01-28T03:19:13+00:00

If she is inherently extremely feminine, or you are inherently extremely masculine, then the shit tests will be few and far between.

The other big factors are how strong your frame is and how much more attractive than her she perceives you to be

Bleu_Cheese_Pursuits · 2019-01-28T05:05:52+00:00

How old is she? The lower the age the higher the SMV, the higher the SMV the more shit testing there'll be.

Title	Is it normal to NOT get shit tested?
Author	koldkillah83
Upvotes	14
Comments	13
Date	January 27, 2019 7:15 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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