Should I sacrifice my morals to gain sexual experience for the first time?

creating_my_life · 2017-03-11T06:51:37+00:00

pass.

WhorehouseVet · 2017-03-11T07:18:44+00:00

Just visit a whorehouse, at least you will like what you see.

Xephol · 2017-03-11T06:51:49+00:00

If this woman really isn't your type and you feel like it's something you'd regret, I'd trust your gut and hold out for another.

Lsegundo · 2017-03-11T13:12:03+00:00

Start practicing abundance now as a virgin. You're not attracted to the woman in any way. You just want to lose your V card.(understandable)

My argument against it isn't about using her for sex. Its about going after what you really want and not settling.

arethoudeadyet · 2017-03-11T13:17:50+00:00

Go to a brothel.

iamirishpat · 2017-03-11T14:53:33+00:00

Fuck her right in the pussy.

50shadesofsigma · 2017-03-11T07:31:38+00:00

fuck her

Glennus626 · 2017-03-11T14:44:53+00:00

Fat girls will do things other girls won't do. You're a man, and should do what will feels good to you. If you use her as a practice fuck, try to get as much out of it as possible. Wear a condom, don't ever take an ounce of shit from her and move one when you've gotten good at fucking, or another comes along. I don't see the big moral problem on this one. Fat girls with kids are not prohibited from having sexual desires.

quicklogaccount · 2017-03-11T14:01:33+00:00

About single mother, if you make it two or three sessions, tops, you'll be ok.
Overall psychotic (and bpd if you want me to tell them apart) people are the only ones that are actually dangerous to even meet. Watch out for those red flags.

ALL the rest is about you. Reading some of your answers, something should be remarked. There are things that are choices, there are things that are stupid choices, and shit that isn't a choice at all.
Not wanting to bang an EASY chick for overcoming your anxiety is a stupid choice, stinks of rationalization for the anxiety itself. You're not a top player there, tutorial and noob zones will benefit you. Unless you're young it'll be really hard to bang one of the "not easy" chicks TO overcome the anxiety. Too much to handle.

Not wanting to bang a fat chick is a choice. Some fat girls are hot, you can expect them to go further in kink (on average), do as you please.

Banging a woman that repulses you isn't a choice. You won't be able to. Experienced men can, although they probably won't. You'll have enough on your head, since you have anxiety issues you'll certainly have it hard keeping the boner. So don't even bother trying. I could only fuck the girl on the second session, and she was hot (with an average face, non repulsive and non attractive).

I'll add something. Put these on cons for obese woman and recently formerly obese women, I've laid two of the last recently. Excess skin over the pussy makes a lot of shit harder, fingering, rubbing clit... Going down is unpleasant, one of them had such a fat pussy that she was dripping wet when I fingered but crazy dry outside.

Anyway, all in all, your fears look like rationalizations for the anxiety. Do you have the hots? Go. Don't? Wait for the next, another easy chick will come.

oldredder · 2017-03-11T14:43:05+00:00

No.

You'll still regret it and it might also become a permanent disaster.

Just keep looking for opportunities. This one sounds nasty. The one I had first was a crazy bitch who wants to lead a guy on, then stop sex in the middle then act like rape is just around the corner.

If I could go back in time I would reverse it completely, never meet her.

macardent · 2017-03-11T18:05:37+00:00

Yeah man. I wouldn't do it, the pain of regret will not leave you alone. Don't talk to her, leave it. You will be more insecure if you bang this whale.

[deleted] · 2017-03-11T19:08:29+00:00

No, you will feel like shit afterwards.

Kalidane · 2017-03-11T21:07:12+00:00

It's just anxiety causing hamstering. You've identified that she isn't suitable for a LTR.

So just fuck her until you don't feel like fucking her again.

Title	Should I sacrifice my morals to gain sexual experience for the first time?
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Date	March 11, 2017 6:47 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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