I have confidence issues. I'm 20. Today, I went to a bar and a club. At the bar, I got to talk to these two gorgeous 25 year olds, and they actually offered to buy me drinks. They were really cool, but I just got too nervous and awkward that I fucked it up. They eventually asked me to leave because I was too awkward — and, they even told me that they didn't see how a guy with an attractive face like mine and money could get so nervous.
Later in the night, I approached another girl, and she just ignored me completely as if I wasn't there — probably because I was really nervous.
After that, I approached a group of girls, and I set up a date with one of them for tomorrow. There here on a Germany foreign exchange program and still have 11 months.
On my last approach I was successful, but I felt that I didn't feel entitled to girls. I was a late bloomer in high school, and I never succeeded, and sometimes, I forget that I am not that person anymore. I'm an attractive, rich white guy (which I know a lot of people on this forum would kill for), but I don't feel entitled to women at all, I feel like a loser at heart.
How can I overcome those feelings? I've obviously come a long way since then.
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