Honestly, I am just travelling and there was this girl who I thought was quite nice (not the type of person I would be good friends with but anyway). There was that guy who was really trying to act cool in front of her, and I just thought he was just trying to impress her, and everyone knew he just wanted to get her laid.

I just thought this will never work because he was really obvious and clinging, just trying to touch her whenever possible. I was playing drinking games with other people, and 5 minutes later i saw them making out. I mean sorry, but he was really weird in front of her and was just paying attention to her trying to please her in every way possible and still got her.

My question is, why was she into him, when you guys all teach to be the exact opposite of that guy (be outcome independent, try not to be needy etc.) Because for me he seemed really needy, and I want to know what was good about his strategy.