Don't know how to get to first date

zxcvb7809 · 2019-02-22T02:17:35+00:00

If she wants to bang you she wants to bang you. If she doesn't, she doesn't. There is nothing you can do to change that. If think the only thing you can do is lower your chances by coming off the wrong way.

When you do hang out make it an enjoyable time. That is the only way to keep them interested I think. Also when you aren't with them have a life or pretend like you do. What I mean by that is don't call and text them all the time.

Big_Red_suppository · 2019-02-22T01:17:03+00:00

No one texts someone into finding them attractive. Dont try to keep girls interested, make them find you interesting.

[deleted] · 2019-02-22T03:06:00+00:00

Here's my formula for online dating.

Pay for boosts on Sunday night. Get matches through Sunday and Monday.

Don't start messaging until Thursday or a day you can go out.

Ask girls out same day. If they say no or give an excuse then next them. There are hundreds of girls out there.

If you're not getting at least 30 matches a week then fix your profile/looks. Aka don't be fat.

Maxim_6996 · 2019-02-22T02:09:18+00:00

Work at improving yourself. Lift, eat healthy, follow your passions. Women will come. You are the prize.

chazthundergut · 2019-02-22T05:57:12+00:00

Dont set the date so far in advance. Wait for a few days before you wanna go out.
Don't be specific about your plans. Say "let's get drinks. You free Friday night?" If she says yes then tell her "cool. I'll find us a place" ... then don't text her back. Wait till day of. Most women in my experience will reach out to check in with you because 1. She is curious, since most men are thirsty and overpursue 2. She does not want to be ghosted on in that position- she wants to do the ghosting ... some wont reach out, and those I usually dont even bother texting because her interest is low and I dont want to waste my time

Pro-tip: double and triple book your date nights. Then you can choose which woman you go out with based on who showed the most interest/ who is the hottest. Then you take your pick out on a date and flake on the others- bonus points if you dont even text them to cancel. Tables turned bitches.

Assuming she does reach out to confirm plans, you can text her the time and location of the bar on the same day as the date.

Using this strategy has significantly reduced my flake ratio. It isnt uncommon for girls to hit me up a day or two before, double checking that our plans are still on.

In this strategy, it isnt what you say or do that raises her interest. It's what you dont do.

Even so, flakes happen. Take it on the chin and never get butthurt, but also don't give her another chance right off the bat

Damn I just realized how much of an impact Alpha Male Strategies has had on my game. Check him out on youtube

Title	Don't know how to get to first date
Author	Bluepilledbeta
Upvotes	3
Comments	10
Date	February 22, 2019 12:58 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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