Hi! I'm a 20 year old lady in college.

I have never had much money and have had mostly all the same clothes since Highschool. (I haven't changed much body wise), I tend to wear a lot of tee shirts, leggings and jeans with converse sneakers. I see this as comfortable and practical. My Hair is always brushed nicely, my nails trimmed and clean and my eyebrows done with my face washed and maybe a little bit of light makeup here and there. Its also winter so obviously everything I wear is more covered and baggy. I think my summer style will be appreciated by him more.

Recently my boyfriend and I had a heart to heart about things that bother us and things we should improve and the one thing that I was alittle gasped about was that he says i'm constantly wearing the same things and that it bothers him I don't dress prettier/more feminine. He loves me and he thinks i'm attractive but he says I don't utilize my beauty at all.

Here is what you can imagine I look like - White, Polish Ethnicity, 5"0, 115 lbs, A Bra Size A, Jean Size about 2, All Clothes mostly XS-XXS. Alot of Dark Blonde Natural Hair that reaches down to the Waist. Green Eyes, My waist is about 27 inches with a Mid-Butt Measurement around 40 inches. My body is decently toned, Alittle college softness from sitting in classes all day.

Here is my issues

  1. I'm very small, i'm talking XXS Shirts and so all shirts are loose fitting on me and most others things dont fit. My boobs are As the only thing that is "Big" on me is my butt.
  2. I only make $100 every Two weeks which is used by buying things like nice shampoo and soap and snacks for in between classes + Gas, Parking, Lunch Money for Clinicals to the Hospital
  3. I Enjoy Comfort. Most of the time we are just hanging around the house, so ive never felt the need to "dress up". I thought dressing up really nice with heels and dresses and makeup for our dinners out was enough.
  4. I enjoy dressing more conservatively, I workout alot to work on my body but I feel odd having my butt hang out (this makes it really hard to buy dresses) and i feel embarrassed having my bare flat chest or belly out. It just feels "slutty" to me. Is there a way to be less "slutty" and more classy beauty type?
  5. I dont have alot of time, I'm a college nursing student. I am on a tight schedule of waking up, going to the hospital, coming to the dorm, washing up, going to classes, working out and going to study and then sleep.

Any Ounce of Advice would be appreciated. Most ladies nowadays would say screw the guy and wear what I want and not care. But I do care! My boyfriends opinion matters to me and I want to better myself the best I can because he betters himself for me all the time.

Thanks For Reading