GF going on a night out

amwfhunter · 2019-02-28T13:07:51+00:00

Dude one night doesnt matter. I'd be more concerned about the relationship if it was a constant habitual thing.

Look if your chick is gonna cheat there isnt a damn thing you can do about it. Just be strong enough to walk away if and when she does. Typically if the sex life is good and you are a high value male she womt go anywhere. Sure hypergamy exists but a chick isnt dumb enough to ruin a sure and good thing especially if she knows u have 0 tolerance for that shit. Like one of my fave plates knows a lot about my background, I've had her for over 3 years.

She knows not to cheat on me blatantly or what not. (I actually do not care but i appreciate) because she knows if I find out not only will I next her but I have the power and ability to really mess her up. And she also knows I treat her well. She is hoping to be my main. Competing.

Just pay attention to her behavior afterwards

atticusfinch1973 · 2019-02-28T13:53:54+00:00

It's a work social function. Relax.

Now, if she's talking about Chad from work constantly and they are texting all the time it might be different. Watch her actions, not her words. And always remember she's not yours, it's just your turn.

mrpthrowa · 2019-02-28T13:42:14+00:00

How long have you been vetting your girl before you made her an LTR?

Did she want to go out during this vetting period?

spider_1337 · 2019-02-28T13:59:11+00:00

I doubt she will get railed by going out for one night unless the universe decides to shit on you by having Chad pull your girl on that very night....

However I would probably implement some slight dread just in case she needs a reminder that she’s still with Zaddy

If she goes out to drinks casually more than once however then yeah she’s probably cheating, probably not I mean who knows but the odds would most likely be towards cheating

masterpiece00 · 2019-02-28T16:04:38+00:00

She has other plans - usually conspired with a close friend camouflaged as a 'work night', possibly another hook up with whom she considers a chad/alpha type while keeping you around as the safe beta bux.

Kpwn88 · 2019-02-28T15:17:03+00:00

This has been covered ad infinitum. Go read more.

Slut_Slayer9000 · 2019-02-28T17:37:42+00:00

Here is the thing, its perfectly ok for girls to go out, just like its perfectly ok for you to go out.

But if she ain't drunk texting you or drunk calling you towards the end of the night because she wants your D inside of her, or texting you how boring it is because she misses you then you probably don't have your shit on lock with her. Girls want "their man" at the end of a drunken night PERIOD, and if she aint got a man then she wishes she had one.

BusterVadge · 2019-02-28T18:36:12+00:00

What would Channing Tatum do? He wouldn't give a fuck about his girl going out because is she fucks up even a little he'll just find someone else just as good.

Everyone in here should be working on cultivating that sort of abundance mentality. These kinds of questions won't ever need to be asked once you get your head on straight.

CharlesChadworth · 2019-03-01T04:39:02+00:00

Bit of a tricky one. Happend to my mate and similar situation happened with me. Girl flew down with her girlfriends to the city a few hours away.

We were at a club, she gives my friend signals. Had no ring on her finger. She chatted with us, my friends gets a cab to her hotel. While fucking her she gets a facetime from her husband.

My mate hides under the sheets while she explains to her husband what a great night she had and is now about to go to sleep. All the while my friends penis was in her as they chat.

Sometimes a girls night out can be innocent, sometimes not so much. Case by case.

LondonChad1999 · 2019-02-28T14:54:11+00:00

Girls with boyfriends in the club are the easiest ones to get with. Thanks for making my life easier;)

Poptart318 · 2019-02-28T16:28:51+00:00

Any gf of mine doesn't go out to clubs or bars without me. It's a boundary in my book. I'm not insecure, it's just a thing that I want with the women I date. If she for some reason hamsters or says you are being controlling Just let her know that she can do what she wants but any gf of yours doesn't go to clubs or bars.

Title	GF going on a night out
Author	charmander_bro
Upvotes	5
Comments	23
Date	February 28, 2019 12:59 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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