So last week I was in a depressive state of mind and feeling insecure out of no where. Posted a question about alpha widows and appreciated the helpful responses.
Over that weekend I withdrew a lot of my attention from wife but wasnt wasn’t acting butt hurt or bitchy, got shit done around the house, kids etc. was cordial. Wife was sensing something up and thought I was mad at her and when questioned I basically played it off, said everything was cool with us and I just had a lot on my mind and was tired from the work week (which was true). She seemed more anxious than usual that weekend. After a good work out and help from you guys on previous post I got over my shit fest in my head. Was feeling super horny after workout and initiated to a very receptive wife, which she came with some cave man missionary style which is very rare in that position unless she’s really turned on.
I know I’m probably way into her frame by thinking this but I’m trying to analyze her psychology, I wasn’t trying to purposely dread her, just taking care of the weekend shit around house and didn’t give her a lot of attention. When I’ve been a little Rambo mode in the past I don’t get this reaction from her. She seemed afraid she had done something wrong. Other times I have been overly taking my attention away she just seemed to withdraw herself as well.
Any thoughts? I’m not hung up about it just trying to see her behavior through RP perspective and maybe there’s a lesson for me to learn here. Maybe not enough STFU on my part
Edit: she was also getting ready for shark week