why are women only attracted to 20% of men?

marcus8crassus · 2019-03-11T04:01:00+00:00

Like with anything, there’s a combination of biological, evolutionary factors as well as those that have been learned throughout life, particularly during the formative childhood and teenage years.

Naturally, women are attracted to men that are perceived as protectors and providers. These biological traits are hardwired and instilled in every male and female. However, it seems that your question stems more from interest regarding the characteristics that are acquired, or learned preferences and behaviors.

The advent of social networking provides women an unprecedented opportunity to connect with people, thereby establishing social proof. Furthermore, social media allows women to receive attention (validation) as well as survey the potential market for available suitors. Additionally, it informs women regarding the possible and potential quality of life they could possess through aligning themselves with a high value man. Ultimately, all of this in conjunction results in an inflated sense of self value and self worth, as well as the perception that they have many opportunities. This is especially important because it allows women to always watch for an opportunity to trade up.

Ultimately, most young men are pathetic, and lack direction and discipline, which also applies to women as well. Since a high value woman is a rare commodity, she can command a great price than what her actual value dictates. This is due to the fact that the transactional relationship market is so extremely unbalanced.

In conclusion, women are attracted to the top percentage of men because in essence, they can be. As humans, we should be genetically programmed toward making decisions that bring positivity into our lives, whether it be success in relationships or business. From my own journey with swallowing the red pill, the most important takeaway is making the most with what you’ve got. Women are no different - they want to get the best possible option they think they can get.

gregoire_ · 2019-03-11T03:51:09+00:00

Everyone wants to get with whoever has the best genes. It’s just that evolutionarily speaking, women have to take the bigger risk with pregnancy, childbirth, and overall weakness, so they’re more selective than men would be.

ProFriendZoner · 2019-03-11T06:13:18+00:00

Because only 20% of men are worth a shit.

CainPrice · 2019-03-11T10:48:07+00:00

Female sexual desire is responsive, not spontaneous. Women don't typically start getting wet and tingly downstairs and fantasizing about sex just by seeing a hot guy unless he's amazing looking, and even then not all women, all the time.

That's where the game comes in. A guy, who is still at least attractive enough to meet her minimum looks requirement, but not necessarily "top 20%" making her wet just by looking hot, can get her interested and excited by being fun and interesting and acting sexy.

OracleofFl · 2019-03-11T11:08:04+00:00

What percentage of women do you find attractive? Let me guess: 20%?

maljo24 · 2019-03-11T14:37:52+00:00

I'm only attracted to 20% of the women.

Title	why are women only attracted to 20% of men?
Author	knowledgeseeker999
Upvotes	6
Comments	21
Date	March 11, 2019 3:43 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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