Stuck in low SMV/status. How to get out of it?

Blazerman_24 · 2019-03-19T12:15:06+00:00

I think you're definitely on the right path. I wouldn't really change much. Keep lifting as that will improve your physique and get your foot in the door for more women. Good on you for working on your hygiene as well.

The advice I will give you is to continue working on your masculine frame. Always be cognizant of that because women are always observing it. Also while you're on dates, focus on having a good time instead of putting all your effort into ensuring that she does.

The fact that you're going on a lot of dates is good because you're getting reps. Keep it up, things will improve.

MattyAnon · 2019-03-19T15:00:28+00:00

I think I am still stuck in low SMV/status. What are the things that I could do to improve my situation? Thank you!

Social status / being good at things / being popular.

Bodyfat: get this low to sharpen your face and definition.

Don't approach, banter, get number, ask out.

Instead it's more like: approach, tease, tease, tease, relax+connect [girl is wary but interested and invests], sexually spike [remind her to be emotional/sexual], relax+connect [more investment], spike, relax, arrange next date, get number.

She has to remember feeling sexual, emotional and excited in your company. She cannot imagine that the next time will be exciting if the last time wasn't.

adamfaliq97 · 2019-03-19T17:17:43+00:00

Look up looksmaxing, skip their shit and their surgery suggestions and you will find usefull stuff. Don't look around to much though because the guys there can fuck you up.

opper-hombre1 · 2019-03-19T17:29:40+00:00

Just got to remember it’s a numbers game. 10% of numbers gathered turn into dates, or something like that

T-P-T-W-P · 2019-03-19T19:04:49+00:00

You’re doing the right things, it’s just that “getting there” with chicks takes different amounts of time for different people. Imagine you’re 27, matured, been lifting for 5 plus years, and now have a job better than most in your age range. I’m certain you will have a different experience than the one you are having if you reach some of these goals. Also, excuse if me if I’m being rude, but generally speaking Asian men have a harder time amongst white and other non Asian women. One of my best buddies is a 5’8 Asian who absolutely cleans up with all the nice Asian women and still has some success with women of other ethnicities as well. Why? Because he’s assuredly in the top 5% of Asian men in terms of SMV (yoked, college athlete, socializes, intelligent, etc.). Keep working towards your aesthetic and social goals along with still doing well in school/career stuff. At some point I think you will be quite content with your life but not before some more hard work. Cheers.

Don_Draper27 · 2019-03-19T19:52:57+00:00

Keeping upping your numbers. If you're getting their digits, but not getting dates, then you need to be a bit more bold and direct. If you can't get second dates, seal the deal on the first date. If you can't get a first date, escalate and kino with girls when you first approach them. It's possible to have same day lays or ONS. Aim for these.

Vikingcel · 2019-03-19T12:22:15+00:00

Naah, you don`t have low SMV. Dating is a numbers game, the more girls you talk to the more you get laid. Don`t take rejection personally and build your experience with girls.

Title	Stuck in low SMV/status. How to get out of it?
Author	adamfaliq97
Upvotes	5
Comments	26
Date	March 19, 2019 11:41 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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