Been seeing a girl for a month, on and off, very casual. Met three times, slept with her the second time, third time had a fun evening with her and friends, then when we were alone got a raft of shit for an hour for supposedly ghosting her over text for a week then turning up out of the blue at a social event with a friend of hers without warning.

Got told I could sleep on her couch instead of drunk driving home, ended up in her bed with her legs around me for the next few hours and sleeping there. She invites me over for her/her friend's joint birthday drinks at hers and night out next week. Specifically says she's got friends staying over so I can't stay there. Think it's legit at this point but could be shit test?. I've been acting like a bluepill bitch since the last time I saw her for some reason, but not to her so I could use some guidance from an RP headspace if you have it for me.

Bottom Line I've been invited to a joint birthday drinks/night out with two girls, one of which I've been casually sleeping with. Do I bring a birthday card? A gift? I've slipped into BP overanalyzing whether or not turning up with a card and some candy or cheap flowers or something (for each of them) is coming from a place of good manners or BP neediness creeping in. I did the worst thing and got opinions from others who suggested everything ranging from "take her out for dinner" to "buy her a silver necklace" so having had my stupid answers from stupid people, what do you guys think?

Obviously the first thing that came to mind was a bag of Skittles but I think that might be too hardcore RP lol