Why getting ghosted stings so much

TheRedPillRipper · 2019-03-31T00:59:51+00:00

it’s probably my ego

u/L3iren you're 100% right. You know what else you control besides it? Your frame.

She didn't ghost you. She lost her shot.

don’t even try to get a closure

You don't need it when you're the prize.

Godspeed and good luck!

FereallyRed · 2019-03-31T01:15:28+00:00

Closure is a female term. Men don't need closure.

Get on with your life.

Project_Zero_Betas · 2019-03-31T00:49:30+00:00

Yes. Trying to get closure in that situation just confirms to her that the ghosting got to you. Don't give them the satisfaction.

CockyAndHot · 2019-03-31T00:52:46+00:00

Fuck your ego. Taking a loss doesn’t make you a loser.

RedSkeller · 2019-03-31T01:53:54+00:00

It used to hurt but I've come to expect it and can almost predict it when it happens. Nothing to ruin your day over, just suck it up and move on.

WiredT · 2019-03-31T00:55:42+00:00

If youve never ghosted anybody then you dont know what its like. Its generally nothing personal. So you learn to give people a pass but if they rudely disappear after setting plans and not giving any heads up is just rude af.

Also its a sense of self esteem and your need for closure is just tryin to keep whats already cracked from breaking. Its not that serious bro but youll hopefully learn. You never understand when somebody says dont sweat it until you stop sweating and realize yourself.

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2019-03-31T04:30:01+00:00

Yeah, you just have to accept it. Why your investment should be LOW until you've fucked her twice and have her spinning.

Personally, I don't ghost. Actually, that's bullshit, I have. I prefer to give a simple 'not interested/no connection/' whatever. It helps me know I've kept my 'side of the street' clean. Now, in other circumstances and more serious shit, I don't owe anyone anything.

Women hate responsibility, blame, all that shit...so many just ghost. You just gotta develop abundance, lower your expectations and don't form any opinion of someone until they're spinning.

whiffofass · 2019-03-31T12:52:40+00:00

I've often found it's a test and they almost always come back later unless you start chasing like a needy beta.

huggyblossom · 2019-03-31T08:56:58+00:00

Women are like monkeys while they swing branches - the first feew tries the monkey is scared and stays on his branch, while the other one looks so far ahead, so the lil monkey iss so scared and can't move, until one high day it makes the jump and miracles do happen you know - it's on the other branch. It's so brave, so happy and can't even think to make the jump back - it was so frightening and now the new branch is so safe, the lil monkey is so happy, so into the moment...

Do you need more fairy tale shit, since this is like what is the female wires up work like and I hate going to that place over and over when someone is sad about a jumping monkey...

WiseGene · 2019-03-31T11:30:50+00:00

People ghost for a clean break. It's not personal. When I get ghosted, I feel some relief as it frees up my time to work on other things.

RedKnightTime · 2019-03-31T01:31:58+00:00

Because you haven't gotten all of that bitch out of your vagina yet

iLLprincipLeS · 2019-03-31T09:34:19+00:00

Who ghosted you?

Title	Why getting ghosted stings so much
Author	L3iren
Upvotes	8
Comments	17
Date	March 31, 2019 12:43 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/b7i2d9/why_getting_ghosted_stings_so_much/
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