Met a great girl WAY too soon in my RP journey. Need advice from older TRP members who might have been in this situation.

Store_Front_Door · 2019-04-02T14:14:53+00:00

Go for it, who cares, just make sure you're ready for:

*The relationship never being as good as you're currently imagining it was

*Trust issues

*Giving up control

*Her having the control

*Being pushed towards "the next step" with more force, eventually facing the same ultimatum again.

*Making another post after two months about how you fucked up.

Recovering takes time, fucking other girls help, but it's not a cure. Dealing with yourself is. But hey, you won't listen, so why even bother?

[deleted] · 2019-04-02T14:50:14+00:00

Your n-count is 4.

Go play in the sandbox and have fun.

Commitment isn't your responsibility. It's hers. She has to earn it by being escalated and has to start at plate like everyone else.

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2019-04-02T14:35:07+00:00

TRP is more than a tool-box. Is Rational Male a book about tools? No, it's changing the way so many blue pills see everything. Understanding and incorporating more 'Alpha' tendencies is just part of it.

You can go back to her. Of course you can. But are you ready to Red Pill the shit out of the relationship, if you want to keep attraction and power?

Or, do you want to live the Blue Pill dream, that you can just 'be you', be your magic genuine, authentic blue pill beta self, and she'll love you and fuck you and desire you, just because...well...you're you?

Only you know which one of those paths you're ready to follow.

McVaghunter · 2019-04-02T15:38:02+00:00

I'm not sure whether I should listen to TRP or listen to what might be common fucking sense.

Oh I see, you mean that TRP is not common sense... Coming from a man with an n-count of 4 who is, quote: "fucking terrified of letting his unique special girl go".

You want common sense: Only a low SMV man is terrified of losing a piece of close-to-hit-the-wall pussy.

ChadTheWaiter100 · 2019-04-02T19:34:09+00:00

Does current Ltr material have booty?

MattyAnon · 2019-04-02T15:39:09+00:00

says that she's someone to hang onto.

No such thing. Don't hang onto women.

And those 2 lays have left a bad taste in my mouth as to what is out there. I'm fucking terrified of letting her go as I'm fearful I might not find someone else as good while simultaneously feel it's so wrong to settle and commit right now.

Your instincts are based on a history of being unattractive and mental wiring based on living in a village of 100.

There are millions more out there now you're attractive. I doubt this one is as special as you think.

I'm well aware that this could go south and she could cheat and all of that. Frankly, I'm prepared to take those risks if I choose to be with her.

But why take that risk for no benefit?

Are you thinking of an LTR? I tell you now: you're not ready.

I seriously need to hear something genuine from someone who's been in this situation

Cold hard truth: relationships are great for max 3 years. After that they CHANGE. What's great about a girl is your relationship with her. Three years later, same girl, same you. Relationship completely different and not for the better.

You cannot lock down her feelings. You can't lock anything in. Relationships are temporary.

Don't commit too much. Keep more options.

AwakenedSovereign · 2019-04-02T15:42:03+00:00

You don't know enough about women to seriously approach an LTR.

It's a bit like walking up to a Rodeo and volunteer to ride the bull. You'll learn something & maybe it will break your bones in the process.

What is most likely to happen just your very obvious oneitis/scarcity will fuck this up.

The rule generally is to bed n>25 women and be at least 25yo before you bother trying to make an LTR work. Even in an LTR, you probably never want to be strictly exclusive in today's market.

But you aren't gonna listen to me. Why would you? I'm just an older, wiser man on the internet telling you how to approach success. Better off being arrogant and learning the hard way aren't you? That's right so good luck with your new girlfriend lol

Blackhawk2479 · 2019-04-02T14:11:11+00:00

Where you’re going wrong is that TRP is common fucking sense; you’re just too afraid you might lose “this one girl” by doing what you want instead of what she and everyone else wants to see that.

I did a couple of long LTRs in my 20s. Waste of fucking time. The glass is already broken, all LTRs end the same way.

Let this girl chase your commitment, while you enjoy her company and the company of other girls, and vet her thoroughly.

You’ve got an n count of 4, hardly a representative sample size of 3.5 billion women is it? This one girl is not special.

Title	Met a great girl WAY too soon in my RP journey. Need advice from older TRP members who might have been in this situation.
Author	kenpachitz
Upvotes	1
Comments	11
Date	April 2, 2019 2:03 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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