For past two months I have been sleeping with a girl. I took her V card. At the next date I was asked if I am seeing other people. I just dodged and she assumed yes. At some other point I went on a vacation (not with her) - she suggested I use a condom and called me a fuckboy. At some point she find some stuff from another girl in my bedroom and that confirmed her suspicions. The sex has been great and we seem to vibe a lot on other stuff as well. She hasn't strongly expressed concerns about me sleeping with other girls though she would call me a badboy occasionally. Several times she has mentioned she only has sex with me (without me asking).

At some point in future I would like to give it a shot with her for something serious. Is it possible with the current player image? Should I be more careful to not bring up the topic of other women?

From my time on this sub and the parent it is not my responsibility to bring up the 'talk'. Does this apply in this case too?

Do I need to show more affection? If yes what would be a non-beta way to do it? I already told her that she is my favourite mistress 😂 (I am married to my work)

My fear is she might see no initiative from my side and think there is no possibility of anything more. At some point she mentioned something along the lines of I can't let you have so much power over my mind so as to not get hurt. Might be BS might be something. Just putting it out there.