Do you ever just want to start a new life?

PilotBass · 2019-04-08T18:07:11+00:00

If you start a new life you will feel the same as you do right now unless you do something different. That is the key. Your actions will determine your life and feelings.

Dump the boyfriend.

Then work towards what you want. (Hint: not something that would rely on another person, since you cannot control that.)

Good luck.

krazykatlady25 · 2019-04-08T18:51:36+00:00

Every day is an opportunity to start a new life. Every day you are presented with a myriad of choices for how you perceive the world and your place in it. Are you grateful that you are given that opportunity every time you open your eyes in the morning?

If you want to quit, then quit. Nobody is stopping you. Just remember, the grass is greenest where you water it. Take inventory of yourself and the people who are a part of your life, and assess what is good for you and what is not good for you. Keep the good, discard the bad. You don't go into much detail about your boyfriend? Is he really as bad as all that? I mean you've been with him for two years! What are you doing to contribute to the relationship? What are you doing to foster his desire to commit to you? Are you holding yourself to your standards? Are you making it known (without nagging) that you want commitment? If you love your boyfriend and want commitment, then be someone your boyfriend wants to commit to. You aren't entitled to commitment just because you're a woman or just because you want it.

You feel sad because you aren't tending to your garden (as woo woo as that sounds, lol). By that I mean, it doesn't sound like you are tending to your life. You don't get the life you want by sitting there and wishing it will happen and then quit when it doesn't go your way. You get the life you want by working for it, cultivating it, taking inventory and constantly reassessing it. Even then, you may not get everything you want! That's when gratitude comes into play. Every day is an opportunity to do better or be better than you were yesterday.

pearlsandstilettos · 2019-04-08T19:35:47+00:00

This post does not seem to be looking for any help, you are just venting. If you want advice you need to include more context, however, you've had two posts up recently about your boyfriend. If you put up another, you aren't likely to get different advice.

Title	Do you ever just want to start a new life?
Author	pazjoc
Upvotes	0
Comments	6
Date	April 8, 2019 5:50 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/bawuk7/do_you_ever_just_want_to_start_a_new_life/
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