Many TRP tips seem to focus on what to do to get the girl to have sex with you, but little emphasize is made on "relationship managment" - what to do keep a girl around for repeats.
I have found that "only texting for logistics" post sex makes the girl feel like she is being ghosted, or that shes a booty call or she feels regretful and ditches you.
I recently met a girl from tinder and we had sex on first date. I waited to see if she would text me on the day after. She did not and when i texted, she said she thought i ghosted her. She texted me everyday or would uphold conversations if i text her first. She even called me. I was using tried and true techniques of not giving too much validation and keeping my replies short - until she hit me with "Chaddeus_Rex, I have thought about it and I dont want to be a FWB and sleep around - thats not really who i am". I suspected it was a comfort test and I tried to comfort her and take her mind off of what she said.
So with that said, how often should one text a girl to keep her warm for meeting up again? What are the rules for initiating/not initiating? Should I initiate or should i wait for her to do it?
I suspect that once i bang her a few more times, i can lull back successfully and have her chase, but it doesnt seem the case now.
Please advise?
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