How do you do it?

Phantom_Spark · 2020-09-17T11:54:15+00:00

You don’t suppress your needs. You address them honestly in another manner. You find other outlets to address your needs. Put simply... you outsource it in a way that doesn’t require relationship and financial commitment.

EL10RUB · 2020-09-17T11:58:52+00:00

Ask yourself a question. Do you understand & accept female nature & their motivations ? Assuming yes, are you happy to continue to want/need their companionship & validation ?

Re sex. Feminism has revealed true female nature, not created it. We've always known, & now it is confirmed, that women use men purely for utility, attention, resources, sex & have no guilt or regret in dumping men when a) those needs are not being met, b) they can secure a better 'deal' from another man. Simply use women for sex & feel no guilt or shame.

Nathaniel66 · 2020-09-17T11:59:53+00:00

> I have a house, cars, a good job and spend my free time doing what I want.

I'm like you.

> I’ve never been hurt or screwed over by females like the horror stories I see on here

I'm like you.

> I feel the need for sex/companionship/validation from the opposite sex

I'm long over it. Perhaps it's the age (40y)? One day i just realized, i don't give a shit what anybody thinks about me, how they validate me. What is important for me is how i feel about me. Improving myself, becoming better me than i was yesterday.

Once i realized it's all up to me and that i don't need validation from women it was the most liberating feeling ever.

Post nut clarity should help probably :)

mozppc · 2020-09-17T12:05:52+00:00

Hire escorts.

TeddyMGTOW · 2020-09-17T12:50:17+00:00

I'm MGTOW and I date, we call it spinning plates over at Red Pill. Just don't get married or move in with them. Also, have a few plates and drop a plate after 6 months. Thats all I got!

2020-09-17T15:04:17+00:00

escorts bro, escorts. in long term it will save you so much money.

2020-09-17T15:31:42+00:00

This needs to be said for everyone who feels guilty for having urges.

THE NEED FOR SEX, COMPANIONSHIP, AND VALIDATION FROM THE OPPOSITE SEX ARE NORMAL. ALMOST EVERYONE EXPERIENCED OR STILL HAVE THEM.

As long as you live, you'll probably feel these needs (dare I even say, urges). And it's okay. It's your biological imperative, as it is mine. Having these needs doesn't make you less of a MGHOW. Acting on these urges, disregarding common sense and personal safety, now that's where I draw the line. If you know that relationship and marriage is a dangerous deal, and you still do it anyway, then you're not MGTOW. I don't care if you think "going my way means I'm getting married because it's up to me and not up to this sub", you'll never ever truly go your own way as long as you're on the mercy of your wife and government.

Ages definitely helps, I'm almost 28 and I can feel my sexual desire decreasing from even last year. But being knowledgeable helps much more. Read up on the horror stories posted almost daily here. Study the gynocentric law of your country (they all have one). Lurk more. If the urges nag you, then going to a professional helps with your sexual urges. Get a dog (or a pet of your choice, I personally don't like dogs very much) and friends (redpilled ones) if you need companionship and validation.

Ok-Collection-8948 · 2020-09-17T12:32:19+00:00

You can pursue women just don’t move in with them.

Be careful though they’ll do and say anything to get you on their plantation.

no_not_this · 2020-09-17T15:34:12+00:00

OP: no one is advising anyone here to ignore, "hack" or destroy their natural biology. If you want to nail chics, have at it (no one here will kick you out....lol).
Horror stories are shared as educational tools to understand the depths of treachery some will sink to. You find a "good one" (no such thing) have fun. You'll start to notice, though, that she'll eventually start to display some traits discussed within these pages.
You're here, you've been forewarned.

Btw, you don't "see" who they are: it's called the gynocentric blindspot. It's all around you. You don't even HAVE to search for it....just start paying attention more (a respectful suggestion, not a demand).

Best of luck and good fortune to you!

GoodMan_Gone · 2020-09-17T15:38:32+00:00

Same as with boats and airplanes: just rent one instead of buying them. Most of the time all 3 give short periods of pleasure while draining maintenance costs. And in both scenarios you pay so only pay for the pleasure moments.

unisopure · 2020-09-17T13:56:16+00:00

MGTOW isn’t a strategy, it’s a way of life, that’s number one. Number two is stop being so dependent on others. Nobody needs validation from anyone else to be successful.

You sound more as a troll than someone interested in MGTOW.

When you said “how do I shut down the desire to purse women” that’s an easy answer and I’ll let you find that.

frostwolf18 · 2020-09-17T16:23:02+00:00

Many propose one night stands, but no fap/semen retention are always very valid methods

2020-09-17T20:01:07+00:00

It's hard being a young MGTOW. I get it, you're biologically programmed to pursue women. To be armed is to be forewarned, so just be wary and don't believe everything that they tell you to be the truth. If you do want to marry, insist on a prenup. If she balks at that wait a week or two and go to her you have something to tell her. Tell her that you made a mistake and that you've lost all your money (a lie of course). If she is true she will support you and stick by you. Make up some story later about how you got your money back. I suspect that most women will just evaporate, never to be heard from again. It's sort of a mean trick but nothing compared to the bad tricks women play on men - and is the clearest indicator where her interests really lie. Good luck.

Zealousideal-Ad5017 · 2020-09-18T01:26:02+00:00

I know exactly what you need.Learn to dance Argentine Tango.

It might sound weird but hear me out. - it requires a lot of discipline and desire for self improvement to get results but ...

The results: - self awareness and body control above your imagination - you get to experience what women experience on a normal basis. You enter a room and feel desired by the opposite sex (validation) - you can get the occasional sex if you want - for the 12 minutes of a tanda (tango music) you get to experience the biological male/female relationship without being perverted by today's society views. - you get to socialize with women if that's your thing - you can decide the level of interaction you want with them

Just: - DON'T BRING ANY HOME as they might want to stick around

Notes: - this is not your typical PUA stuff as there is no deception or having to play a role or playing mind games. The better you are as a dancer, the more they want to interact with you.

Sudden_Mountain · 2020-09-18T05:18:20+00:00

I think meet prostitutes. Or rub one out yourself. Either one works properly.

everydaygreyman · 2020-09-18T22:34:04+00:00

The purpose of life is to make new life. That’s why salmon swim upstream, why plants make flowers, why mosquitoes suck blood, etc, etc. You’re fighting the most elemental of all animal instincts.

I have 3 daughters. I know my life wouldn’t feel complete without children. Their mom (my ex) was miserable to be around and I’m happy to be (mostly) rid of her. I get love from my children and sex from occasional women. When their bull shit gets to be too much (it ALWAYS does) I can kick them to the curb and get a different one. Or I can take a break and focus on other aspects of my life. MGTOW is easy as a divorced father in my 40s. In my 20s it would have been very hard.

Title	How do you do it?
Author	no_not_this
Upvotes	43
Comments	29
Date	September 17, 2020 11:43 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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