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r/relationship_advice provides a classic example of why you don't wife up a whore

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June 12, 2014
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Title r/relationship_advice provides a classic example of why you don't wife up a whore
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Upvotes 36
Comments 29
Date June 12, 2014 6:49 PM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/27zijp/rrelationship_advice_provides_a_classic_example/
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[–]1greatest_mistake22 points23 points24 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Takes the pill with her , recently passworded her phone, mention of hall passes, minimal sex, and past instances of cheating. I'm thinking if he came home one day and caught her in the act, he would still hamster it away. I feel bad for people like him. On the bright side, looks like TRP community will gain another member.

[–]EducatedCavemen8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

or another hater. BPs are fucking delusional.

When we first got together she cheated on her boyfriend to be with me. (Note: I have never cheated on her, or any other girlfriend for that matter) When we took our break 2 years ago, 2 weeks after the break she had sex with someone else. Our break lasted 2 months. After we got back together she "kissed" a co-worker and apologized and said that she was emotional and it would never happen again.

That made he cringe a little bit. Especially that note, he pretty much said, "i don't cheat on her so she shouldn't cheat on me"

Then "We recently got married" was the icing on the cake.

[–]DarkSayed 18 points19 points20 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

And when they tell you a girl's past doesn't matter because it's in the past, what they ignore is that your past is a good predictor of the future.

A woman's past matters, a lot and you'd be a fool to ignore it. This chap has probably been so brainwashed by society that he wilfully ignored the fact that she cheated on her ex with him.

He was extremely foolish to marry her given that he knew first hand she was a cheat.

[–]2Overkillengine6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ayup. Cheat for you = high probability of cheat on you. Applies to either gender really.

The only time one should proceed is if it was in the distant past, the cheater admitted what they did was wrong (no hamstering it), and they show a long trend of demonstrating their desire to not be that kind of person from then on out.

And even then proceed with extreme caution.

[–]TRP VanguardCyralea2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"I know you're interviewing a lot of candidates for this job, but I just want to know that you shouldn't overlook me because I stole money from my last company and hid in the washrooms for hours at a time instead of working. I've moved past it and so should you. It's none of your business"

Funny how fem-logic sounds absolutely ludicrous when you apply it to nearly anything else.

[–]DarkSayed 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly, put it in the frame of a job interview and it's absurd.

[–]MikeyCSGO29 points30 points31 points 12 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

Only have sex twice a year? That's insane how could you marry someone who doesn't even want to fuck you. Even if a girl was only slightly attracted to you she would be fucking you more than that.

[–]BeefyBeefy31 points 12 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

It's very common and if you consider the fact that the woman is a known cheater, it makes sense that she barely fucks him. She's off having sex with other men instead. Beta bux alpha fux.

Nothing new.

[–]Ralt 12 points13 points14 points 12 years ago* [recovered] (10 children) | Copy Link

I think the passes were for fucking people outside of the relationship because he followed it with

I like having sex, but I am not into hall passes, and am more interested in being faithful.

Poor dude, hope he gets out of their with his worth intact.

[–]ioncloud96 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

yeah thats some bullshit right there. "Well if we BOTH get to do it, its OK right?" Because going out and sleeping with just anyone is just as easy for guys as it is for girls. This means she is already cheating and is looking to get you to agree that it technically isnt since we have "hall passes" and its "equal."

[–]Ralt 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, leaves a shitty taste in the mouth. All a lot of guys want is a stable relationship and possibly to have a family, while their women are trying to force open relationships that will murder their relationship. The pill is bitter, as we say.

[–]Burner1701-2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Could you tell me where you heard that a lot of women are trying to force open relationships?

[–]Ralt 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

My own personal experience with women, my friends, and this sub.

[–]Burner17010 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

That's a bit flawed. You are on this sub because you have a certain life experience with women similar to that of others who make up this sub. Your friends are your friends and likely largely similar to you in that you probably share common circles of friends and social location and position. I'm not convinced these sources are diverse enough to generate accurate sweeping statements.

[–]Ralt 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago* [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link

I didn't even want to make an "accurate sweeping statement". I used the phrase "a lot". That can mean fucking anything, it's literally a phrase without a numerical value attached. I don't care what about getting a representative data set and examining how most men and women are interacting. It has no effect on my life whatsoever.

[–]Burner1701-3 points-2 points-1 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Hey, you sounded like you knew what you were talking about and I was interested enough to follow it up with you. Fuck me yeah?

[–]NoReallyItsTrue3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

A lot of people on this sub are bitter, you learn to deal with the down votes when you disagree with something. But, the acronym you're looking for is NAWALT, not all women are like that. It can be used as an argument against someone claiming that all women want to have open relationships (which I agree is unreasonable), but of course RP theory is meant to represent the mindset and patterns of behavior of the average woman, should she give in to her instincts.

I think a great comparison is that men are attracted to large breasted, thin waste, pale skin, jiggle butt 15, 16, and 17 year old girls. Even though most men might feel this attraction, nearly none act on these feelings because of societal pressures. We don't talk about it openly because it's typically unacceptable to even admit that a 16 year old girl can be very sexually attractive. In the same way, the RedPill suggests not that all women cheat, but that hypergamy is their programming. In the same way, they may feel this attraction to pursuing multiple partners and elect not to due to social pressures.

[–]Burner1701-2 points 12 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Thanks.
I sometimes feel men here tend to view nearly all women as the kind of women who go to bars and have a lot of casual sex. But there are great swathes of women who never go to bars. They hang out with their friends, their boyfriend, their husband, their family, and have their studies, their work, their hobbies, and live their lives and sex with multiple partners is the last thing on their minds. I suspect theredpill mentality, in focussing on attracting the first group largely because they are most visible, has some major flaws.

[–]fukdahaters10 points11 points12 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

the sad part is that there's no way for the guy to win, either divorce her and lose half his shit, or stay married to a whore who cheats on him weekly.

[–]2comment7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It's his fault, he saw the warning signs the instant they met:

When we first got together she cheated on her boyfriend to be with me.

Back and to the left. There it is. This type of woman is a fun time, never marriage material.

[–]cwschizzy7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He's so trusting it hurts.

No matter how you dress it up, a pig is a pig and a whore is a whore.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Who goes on a break?

It's such a manipulative move made by the stronger party. More or less "I want to fuck around but keep you as my security option later". If a break is offered I make it permanent.

[–]myrptaway9 points10 points11 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Haha reminds me of Jessie Rogers. She went from being gang-banged by 15 dudes to quitting porn and going celibate, new boyfriend is not getting any. What a stupid fuck.. guy is ugly tho.

[–]Dubba 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh man, what a sap. If you want to be in a celibate relationship then more power to you, but why go into one with an ex-whore? She's probably about as interesting as a box of nails. Plus, I know I wouldn't be able to look at her during breakfast without visualizing her deepthroating 15 dicks back-to-back.

[–]3rt410 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is so bad, her body (before breast augmentation) was damn tight, what an ass!

[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

There is actually some RP advice on that thread:

--trickle truth alert on the kissing the coworker

--past behavior predicts future behavior "why wouldn't she cheat?

--dump that cheating whore seems to the theme.

Perhaps we are making headway?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This last sentence is important. Time was that on reddit any amount of cheating was acceptable if it was the woman doing it, he would have to go to therapy and work the relationship through it.

Now, it's "drop that whore"

Feels good... like the smell of a summer garden...

[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That is good news. I am seeing evidence of growing awareness of TRP principles.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I honestly do not believe someone can be so blind.

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