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Taylor Swift's Guide to Dating: "Freeze him out until he does something desperate..."

brons104

February 6, 2014
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Title Taylor Swift's Guide to Dating: "Freeze him out until he does something desperate..."
Author

brons104

Upvotes 46
Comments 34
Date February 6, 2014 3:59 PM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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[–][deleted] 73 points74 points75 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Taylor Swift's guide to getting pumped and dumped.

[–]butsomeare 20 points21 points22 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And, in her case, to be followed by another shitty pop song whining about it.

[–]2comment 50 points51 points52 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Article:

And while her romances don’t exactly scream “Happily ever after” — her dating roster includes noted playboys John Mayer, Jake Gyllenhaal, and Harry Styles — they do look fun (for the most part). Whether you find her relationships fascinating or exhausting, the girl has game.

LOL, of course the author is a woman. The girl has game like a tricycle has 4 wheels.

[–][deleted] 18 points19 points20 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The girl has game like a tricycle has 4 wheels.

Solid line.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

the girl has game.

A hot chick in rich men social circles? Such game!

[–][deleted] 62 points63 points64 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

It's like reading Adolf Hitler's Guide to Fighting in Russia.

[–]1PaulRivers10 10 points11 points12 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

LOL, I gotta use that one in real life sometime...

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

In winter.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

In standard issue spring uniforms because your supply lines couldn't make it through the harsh cold.

[–]trpArtVandelay 29 points30 points31 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Never take dating advice from a girl" even applies to girls, apparently

[–]InferiousX 16 points17 points18 points 12 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

AKA: "How to make sure you never attract a high quality man"

EDIT: Upon actually reading the article, it's worse than that. If you read the whole thing, you'll see so many contradictions in what she wants that your head will spin. Here let me translate, "I have no idea how my own attraction mechanism works, or how to keep a good guy around."

[–]Endorsed ContributorRedBigMan 10 points11 points12 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Actually I have no doubt this tactic works for her. Because of her solipsism she thinks it works for every woman. We all know it wont because fame and fortune will mean that the average woman who takes her advice will be screwed.

[–]brons104[S] 29 points30 points31 points 12 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

Just a list of dating advice that Taylor Swift, the reigning queen of failed, high profile relationships, is trying to pass on to a new generation of women. What a load of crap. Everything that she says is a good example of the crap that drive real men out of a relationship and only leaves room for betas to step in. Of course, such a successful woman doesn't want a beta, so she keeps riding the carousel that she has built for herself.

And of course all of this is getting weighed in on by a woman who also perpetuates the carousel. Check out her biggest book; it's a how to guide on breaking up with men who "can't be changed by the woman". Last time I checked it takes two to tango and this is the exact crap that is being shoved down the throats of our new generation: Women are at fault for nothing and it is the man who must provide and change to suit their needs.

Edit: Minor grammar.

[–]robesta 12 points13 points14 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I'd be willing to bet she routinely doesn't follow her own advice when she gets the tingles. This should read, "shit I wish I did with the men I date."

[–]brons104[S] 8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Ohh yeah, when you go on the Ellen "Degenerate" show and that piece of work calls you out on your failed relationships, it might be time to take a good hard look at your own perceptions.

[+]SweetiePieJonas -9 points-8 points-7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ellen "Degenerate"

Shit like this makes you look like a fucking moron, FYI.

[–]BetamaxFaggle 14 points15 points16 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Swift says: “Freeze-out: You don’t respond to any of his texts or calls until he does something desperate [like] shows up. Or he calls and leaves a voice mail. Something that makes it very clear to you that he’s interested.” — Glamour, 2014

Works for high-value men that she has already qualified. Low value man tries same thing; 'omg stalker, you need to go to jail today'.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

On the other hand, blame goes to low value guys too for not knowing their and girls price in the market. You must realize that if girl looks good and you don't and are generally feminine, and she doesn't respond to you, she's not gaming you, she's avoiding you.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Unless I would be heavily in LTR with that girl this technique would just force me to cross her of my list ...

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points14 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I felt a great disturbance in the Force, as if millions of voices suddenly cried out "NEXT."

[–]1PaulRivers10 12 points13 points14 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Part of what this shows is how completely disingenous woman's advice on what they claim to like is.

On Knowing When a Guy Is Interested Swift says: “Freeze-out: You don’t respond to any of his texts or calls until he does something desperate [like] shows up. Or he calls and leaves a voice mail. Something that makes it very clear to you that he’s interested.” — Glamour, 2014

Swift says: “I think everyone should approach relationships from the perspective of playing it straight and giving someone the benefit of the doubt. Until he establishes that this is a game. And if it’s a game, you need to win. The best thing to do is just walk away from the table.” — Glamour, 2014

On Not Playing the Game Swift says: “Deciding not to play games is the best way to go because it keeps things simple: If he messes it up by playing around with your heart, you’ll know he doesn’t deserve you. You were real with him, and he didn’t return the courtesy. Someone else will!” — Seventeen, 2012

You know...don't play games...unless you're playing games, then it's cool.

This is exactly what game / the red pill means when it says "Don't listen to what they say, watch what they do". They'll say...anything.

[–]Brotagonist_01 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Taking dating advice from T. Swift, a true to definition alpha widow, would be like taking sex tips from a cuckold. She repeatedly gets pumped and dumped. Granted, given the chance, I'd still smash her, but if she does any of the things thatshe says that she does, it's no wonder she gets treated the way that she does.

If she got smashed by any real Red Pill dude, her fucking music would change.

[–]1PaulRivers10 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't think it would change.

I think she's what happens when a girl gains so much status that no guy can actually out-status her. She's always going to get bored because there's never going to be a guy who has higher status than she does.

[–]RebootedMale 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I doubt John Mayer did anything desperate with her.

[–]pdx_rp 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

She has developed a high level hypergamy because she is a high value target. Probably one of the highest (rich, attractive, talented). But she's still a girl. She wants to be chased, and she wants to be defeated.

More than likely the only man who could pull her down and have the resources and SMV to conquer her shit tests and destroy her frame would be an apex alpha, or someone who is highly skilled at breaking down her frame and maintaining his.

Take note fellas, because she's giving you the blueprint on how to give a woman like her the tingles, how to feed her hamster and what her shitty girl frame is all about.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

More than likely the only man who could pull her down and have the resources and SMV to conquer her shit tests and destroy her frame would be an apex alpha, or someone who is highly skilled at breaking down her frame and maintaining his.

So... Vladimir Vladimirovich Putin?

[–]conjunctionjunction1 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

So... Vladimir Vladimirovich Putin?

Yes, this needs to happen! Just think: Ultimate Power Couple. Then he can steal her grammy to put on the mantel right next to his superbowl ring. Also, think of the breakup song fodder for T. Swift!

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

think of the breakup song fodder for T. Swift!

I can see it now. Unfortunately, Swift's Triple-Platinum Putin on the Ritz -- likely featuring instant classics like "Sweeter than Polonium", "Back to Decembrists", and "Ukraine to Burn" -- would be the talented artist's last.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

i feel bad for the psychotherapist

she is obviously trying so hard to find anything positive in T-Sizzle's drivel

[–]elderstorm 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I would fuck you, but I wouldn't fuck with you Tay.

[–]bama79rolltide 8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What's wrong with her face?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Funny, the freeze out is one of my best deployed ASD counter moves.

[–]infernalsatan 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The most important part is to write a song about it after breaking up

[–]TheD_ 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"How I will test your mettle as a man" is more apt description.

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