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The One Hour Nightmare | Two Valuable Lessons from Redditor's Horrible Date: 1) NEVER Go on a Formal 'Date' with an Unfamiliar Girl, 2) ALWAYS Have an Ejection Plan

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February 2, 2014
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Title The One Hour Nightmare | Two Valuable Lessons from Redditor's Horrible Date: 1) NEVER Go on a Formal 'Date' with an Unfamiliar Girl, 2) ALWAYS Have an Ejection Plan
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Upvotes 45
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Date February 2, 2014 10:37 PM UTC
(12 years ago)
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[–]Endorsed Contributormonsieurhire212 points13 points14 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I'm not sure I buy his story. The timeline in particular is a red flag.

[–]InferiousX4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I had a blind "date" that was just as insane as this story.

[–]Endorsed Contributormonsieurhire24 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't get me wrong; I'm sure stuff like this happens all the time. I have a horror story or two. It wasn't the subject matter exactly, it was more the style that it was written in.

[–]bobbyreno2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This fake story should have been more like this.

6:45 PM - I arrive at her house to pick her up. I know this seems odd for blind date protocol but she had requested that, rather than both of us meet at the restaurant, I pick her up because her car is not street legal. She walks out of her house dressed fairly nice. The one thing that seemed odd was that she was wearing enough eye makeup to make the likes of RuPaul and Lady Gaga cringe. As she approached the car, I could smell the distinct aroma of vodka. When she tried to hug me hello, I said goodbye and drove home.

[–]1bradyo21 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

She 'really likes Jap food, but can't stand Japs', and then orders a salad cause she can't stand raw fish? errr....?

[–]Endorsed Contributormonsieurhire20 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly.

[–]NAFI_S5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This story seems fake.

[–]Veritisia7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A Date? That's where he went wrong.

[–]Doctor_Mayhem3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

That's why I go for drinks or coffee. So done with dates.

[–]FinalEquin0x1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Either that or the ole "I'm going to go get a bite to eat, you can come along if you want."

I don't like coffee/not 21.

[–]abutterfly0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Try tea. If you start working your way around good teas (or even if you just know what you like) it can appear impressive.

[–]Endorsed Contributorredpillbanana3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Know what's weird? I really like jap food but I just can't stand japs!"

Then:

My delicate flower of a date throws her leg on to the table, lifts her pant leg and shows me a tatto that wraps around her ankle. It is some generic-looking tribal pattern with a few kanji characters worked in to the design. She explains that the japanese script are actually the names of her future children, Dylan and Skylar.

WTF?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The stuff you read at 2AM...

Hope my next one doesnt go as bad.

[–]alt303130 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"he was too much of a sissy to fight like a man".

I've met women that think its ok to get physical and women that think like his date. Too much crazy in the post to comment on.

[–]diamened0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is a funny story. I don't believe for an instant that it's a true story though.

[–]bama79rolltide0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow. Should have left her at the table as soon as the waiter decided to make you wait for the check.

[–]schoolboyQueue0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's some pretty old copy pasta

[–]Endorsed ContributorLastRevision0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

"I had already decided before the date began that there was to be no fucking, so I was not too worried"

Why is he beta IN HIS OWN FAKE STORY?!!

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It takes the pressure completely off. This isn't a date, its an interview.

He's a high value male, he doesn't care if he's gets laid. He doesn't even WANT to get laid right now, he has better things to do.

"Want sex?" "Eh, no thanks."

Its a completely legitimate choice on his part.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It takes the pressure completely off. This isn't a date, its an interview.

He's a high value male, he doesn't care if he's gets laid. He doesn't even WANT to get laid right now, he has better things to do.

"Want sex?" "Eh, no thanks."

Its a completely legitimate choice on his part.

[–]dowork91-1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

It's not beta to decide shit on your own terms. It's not "alpha" to go around trying to fuck all the time.

[–]Endorsed ContributorLastRevision1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Why decide before the date at all? Why not feel things out and see how it goes? You're telling me that if she were a 10 and things were going great and she was dying to suck his dick he would say, "SORRY, I DECIDED BEFORE OUR DATE TO NOT HAVE SEX BECAUSE I'M A PRECIOUS FLOWER"?

[–]dowork910 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Dude, he decided he didn't want to fuck. Being your own man is the most important thing, no?

[–]Endorsed ContributorLastRevision0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

All I'm saying is that the decision doesn't need to be made before the date. What is the point of that? I agree that a man's intent should be clear and that he should act through his own intentions, but I question why the decision should be made before meeting the girl.

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