Questions about Frame

-Anon13- · 2020-09-07T16:23:11+00:00

All of the other comments are shit. Your frame is who you are... if you constantly change behavior around people, you have a weak frame. If you stand up for yourself and believe in your values no matter who challenges them, you have a strong frame. You can out frame anyone as wealth isn't apart of frame.

Out Framing a girl is simply a matter of not changing who you are or what you want for/from a girl. People will either fall in or stay in their own frame. Build your frame by thinking about your values and enforcing them until they are engrained.

trollreign · 2020-09-07T19:49:04+00:00

You overcomplicate the concept of frame, but then again many people on TRP do. Frame simply means that you fully understand who you are and you are comfortable with it. You don't give a fuck about what others will think when they encounter you and your opinions, and you don't emulate the people around you, you don't change your personality to try to make people like you. You are who you are, and people can love it or hate it, you still remain you. It's really that simple.

What is difficult is for us to tell you how to be you. One important thing is to have a vision for where you are headed. If you have clear goals and some ideas on how to get there, and you are working towards it, then you will be harder to derail from your mission and your values. It sounds vague, but it's simple: you need to know who you are, where you are, where you are going, and you need to be able to accept it.

2020-09-07T15:59:55+00:00

Be strong, have power, dont act like a bitch.

Whomever can do the above better, in different situations, has the stonger frame.

That is my long, convoluted, sexual theory on the dichotomy and relation between men in the dominance hierarchy.

Now I smart LARPer 😎

diller1994 · 2020-09-08T04:49:28+00:00

I see it as. There is always one person reacting to the other person more than the other. So use this. Get them reacting to you. Get them to agree with you. Ooooh, ahhhh. Make them feel this way. And that. Make your frame what is dominant. It's frame control

Edit: I actually used this on an old boss. It's pretty powerful stuff. He was doing exactly what I wanted him to do.

Rakosnik · 2020-09-08T07:35:21+00:00

Frame is the construction of your self importance within your own boundaries. Do you remember being that little boy who thought everything is for him and by him? Always thinking from his own mental point of origin. I am the most important person in the world. I take what I want. All the shit I do is freaking cool and awesome. It makes me happy. I love doing it.

You girl can join but need to bend to my frame/boundaries/my awesomeness. If you can make yourself happy/fullfilled, having a mission you work on etc... than you are the point of your attention and validation. You validate yourself. No need for external validation. Not giving a flying fuck what others might think of you because you already know you are the shit. You dont own anyone anything except your kids.

BIGFACTS98 · 2020-09-08T14:13:19+00:00

Frame depends on the degree you are in control of both internal and external factors. It isn’t one or the other.

You can have a great frame by being a broke af super confident handsome guy who women fuck because he’s hot

You can have great frame as a 300 pound overweight self employed business owner who knows he doesn’t need to work for anyone for the rest of his life

The strongest frame will come from the person who has both handled sufficiently enough that any potential problem that can arise in those areas will be handled with ease.

Frame is confidence

Confidence is self esteem

Self esteem comes from handling your shit, and that means ALL of your shit from the fucking car you have to the words you use to talk to yourself in your head

TigerTamingSword · 2020-09-08T14:46:27+00:00

Search for Woujo's "How to hold frame" post. It's very long, but it touches, I think, at the essence of what frame is. All the other comments about money, status, etc, are tangential at best. Frame is an inner state that is closely related to your inner beliefs and drive to seek and overcome life's challenges, society be damned. No wonder that adopting a mission is such an important piece of TRP advice.

drewshaver · 2020-09-07T16:01:08+00:00

Is actual success the only real way to build frame?

To your first question.. yes I think so. When you are employed by someone else, most of your day is spent in their frame and so it is easy to naturally adopt that attitude for the rest of your day.

If your talents are sufficiently in demand that you can at any time tell your boss to fuck off, because you are not concerned with finding other employment, that is probably sufficient as well.

Or say, if I start talking to more girls and gradually get better at flirting, that's also a way to build frame?

That's game not frame. This actually sounds more like you are stepping into their frame because you are defining your success based on if your flirting is successful. Not caring if your flirting works -- that is a way to build frame.

drsherbert · 2020-09-07T16:51:35+00:00

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Aesthetic_God__ · 2020-09-08T08:46:11+00:00

Sidebar's content on frame always seemed dry to me too.. I used to save posts about frame when I found them and they were all very strong, like 2 years ago. I relied more on them and it helped me improve it overtime.

white_girl_lover · 2020-09-07T16:21:57+00:00

Don’t overthink it. Self improvement in a variety of ways (career, health, self actualization, etc.) can improve frame.

Questions 2 and 3 would not be asked by someone with strong frame.

Title	Questions about Frame
Author	Illoyonex
Upvotes	15
Comments	21
Date	September 7, 2020 3:29 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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