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Girl rapes her unconscious boyfriend, "sexxit" commenters exercise the usual double standard

blowlinesfuckdimes
December 1, 2013
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Title Girl rapes her unconscious boyfriend, "sexxit" commenters exercise the usual double standard
Author

blowlinesfuckdimes
Upvotes 24
Comments 41
Date December 1, 2013 8:02 PM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1ruuey/girl_rapes_her_unconscious_boyfriend_sexxit/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/girl-rapes-her-unconscious-boyfriend-sexxit.232270
https://theredarchive.com/post/232270
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[–]Exactly_what_I_think 26 points27 points28 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Birth control?

The only issue I have with this is birth control related.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree. I find this hilarious if she took the proper precautions.

Although you've got to be careful with bitches who are fiending for a baby.

Would be interesting to see if a guy was raped in this manner and then the chick got pregnant against the guys will.

[–]Clauderoughly 33 points34 points35 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Men and women are held to different standards.

Boo fucking hoo.

That isn't going to change any time soon.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 13 points14 points15 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I don't believe it will ever change.

[–]Clauderoughly -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't either, I just wish someone would get it through the thick, whiny skulls of the crowd over at mensrights

[+]ScannerSloppy -13 points-12 points-11 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't believe it should.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, its important to make do with the hand you've been dealt with, manage your own domain and be happy

[–][deleted] 43 points44 points45 points 12 years ago (22 children) | Copy Link

She didn't rape shit. There is implied consent in relationships. If a guy got horny and stuck it in while his GF was asleep, no one here would be complaining. Stop with the melodrama.

This is the issue with rape hysteria, because comparing this to an actual violent rape, lessens what an actual rape is.

[–][deleted] 48 points49 points50 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

If a guy got horny and stuck it in while his GF was asleep, no one here would be complaining. Stop with the melodrama.

Sexxit would blow the hell up if it was a guy doing it.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Tbh most people would consider that rape.

Myself included.

Implied consent is one thing, but thats just... Fuck dude she needs to be at least awake!

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I wish more people in this sub understood this, we know ever other sub is fucked up and has a bias, were not going to change that and posting shit like this does nothing but make us out to be a bunch of whinners WAAA IF A MAN DID IT ITD BE RAPE WAAA WHY ISNT IT FAIR.

[–]throwawaygonnathrow 11 points12 points13 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Actually there's no implied consent in both states... Other than a narrow marital exception that is generally disappearing. Unconscious is basically always legal rape, relationship or not.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Some countries have removed rape from the statutes as a response to things like this and replaced it with varying degrees of sexual assault. We were going to have it in the UK as well, but the feminists decried it (RAPE IS RAPE!!!!oneeleven) and it was dropped, despite it being a huge step forward that would have actually made convictions for genuine sexual assault easier to get.

That aside, the law says lots of things, like this big fat joint I'm smoking is evil.

[–]CAPTAINxTRIPS19 points 12 years ago [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link

While I agree that the gravity of actual rape is greatly diminished by the word being thrown around so hastily, /r/sex would have gone apeshit on a guy for doing the same thing. I'd even go as far as to say that most people would point fingers at him.

Would I be angry if my ltr girlfriend did this to me? I'd be more worried of the implications of the sex (birth control?) than the act itself, but that doesn't eliminate the double standard here.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I see what you are saying, but I haven't been able to find any actual evidence of /r/sex going apeshit over the reversed situation.

[–]CAPTAINxTRIPS -3 points-3 points-3 points 12 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I found this. It's along the same lines.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I saw that, it's similar, but differently phrased, what with the drugging and all, I couldn't see much hysteria in the thread either though.

[–]CAPTAINxTRIPS1 points 12 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

It depends on the way you have comments displayed. When I looked at the thread, the top displayed comment was something to the effect of, "That makes him a rapist", and all the replies were people agreeing.

The drugs do add another level to this, but it's worth noting that in OP's story, the boyfriend was passed out drunk, which can be equated to sleeping pills for all intents and purposes.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fair enough.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

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[–]__var 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

In Canada, I don't think there is implied consent.

  • http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/no-consent-in-unconscious-sex-case-supreme-court-1.1016087
  • http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/supreme-court-decision-on-sexual-consent-1.1016085

[–]alt30313 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There is implied consent in relationships. If a guy got horny and stuck it in while his GF was asleep, no one here would be complaining.

You don't speak for everyone here. I have/would have a problem with it. There is no such "implied consent" in relationships.

[–]hunter_of_unicorns 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

there may be a double standard from some lunatics on the "other side", but that doesn't mean we should follow suit.

my girlfriend is welcome to ride my dick anytime she wants, whether I'm asleep or not (unless I say no or otherwise indicate as such).

It is truly an insult to people who are ACTUALLY raped to pretend that what this girl did was unacceptable or wrong in any way. and yes, if the roles were reversed, it's also completely fine.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There is implied consent in relationships.

No, there isn't (by law). If the sexes were reversed and charges were pressed, there is no doubt that the man would be convicted of rape.

Of course, reason and logic are different than the law, and in terms of reason you are correct.

[–]AgentSmith27 -3 points-2 points-1 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Seriously, what guy would mind? Most women wouldn't mind either. If you are already having sex, and your relationship is on good terms, it becomes more of a "hey, no fair, I missed out" sort of thing.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Whats the connection here to TRP?

[–]I-skid-on-your-grave 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah the double standard sucks, but this seriously doesn't belong here.

[–]SupALupRT 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Id be fine with it. I think most people would if you are together. As stated only concern birth control.

[–]Koss424 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah if you use the dictionary definition, it was rape, and yes there is a double standard. But honestly, if I was the guy in the story, I don't think was would really care. I doubt I'm alone.

[–]Icedeamon 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

In my last major relationship I accidentally ended up doing this exact same thing. She was typically a light sleeper and this one morning I woke up a little hornier than normal, now typically neither of us were oppose to morning sex, but we had never discussed having sex while the other was asleep, or as a means to wake either one of us up.

Anyways the point of this story is that, as we were ending our relationship (she was leaving the Uni that I was at and not coming back) we talked about the best sex that either of us had had with the other, surprisingly she told me that this instance of me waking her up though sex was the best that we had ever had. This surprised me for a few reasons mainly being that she had never mentioned that she was asleep, and even after the initial deed she had not mentioned that she was asleep before the fact.

Tl;DR woke GF up with sex w/o knowing she was asleep, claimed it was the best sex we had ever had

[+]MSoftHarem -46 points-45 points-44 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

My first girlfriend passed out mid session once. I was so pissed I kept pumping away until I was close, pulled out, and finished all over her while she was sleeping. She was a little fired up (and sticky) come morning. I laughed it off and told her not to pass out again. True story.

Rape? Rape.

[–]Meshakhad 24 points25 points26 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep. You're a rapist.

[+]RedSunBlue -12 points-11 points-10 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's some gray, grey area.

[–]Manuel_S -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If everything is rape then nothing is.

Birth control for me is the real issue here. That and not remembering is a bummer.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link

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[–]blowlinesfuckdimes[S] 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

So you're saying it is literally impossible to rape someone if you're in a committed relationship no matter the circumstances?

[+]ScannerSloppy -19 points-18 points-17 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

more or less

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

milked consent

What?

[–]Divinityfound -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I didn't really see any double standards looking at it. They seemed to talk more about the issues of "Implied consent".

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