Girl says: My BF is a "pleasant addition" to my life- but I miss my alpha ex!

AlwaysLateToThreads · 2013-06-14T22:52:32+00:00

in the reply to a comment by the OP

I'm beginning to think that while he might look good "on paper" ie, has most of the things I'd want in a partner, we just don't share a strong connection.

Translation: he's so perfect but doesn't make my pussy wet.

This is why we listen to the fishermen, not the fish.

HumanSockPuppet · 2013-06-15T08:24:20+00:00

This is one of the enduring qualities of the Red Pill. The idiosyncrasy.

To an indoctrinated man, it seems incomprehensible that a woman could possibly be so irrevocably drawn to a man who "mistreats" her. After all, dating is about pair-bonding, right? It should be easy to identify a person's suitability as a long-term partner.

From that perspective, it seems like women are self-destructive, suicidal dimwits, and the jerks who prey on them are opportunistic beasts.Nothing makes any sense.

But the indoctrinated man's fatal flaw is to assume that the universe is fair. The universe is not fair - it selects for efficacy.

Alpha sperm will give the female's offspring the greatest odds of survival. And knowing full well the the alpha won't be inclined to stick around and rear the child, she'll fall back on the strategy of having a mealy beta pay her way for her.

She takes the best offerings from both mates and creates the most efficient and effective strategy for ensuring that her offspring survive.

Viewed in this way, it becomes internally consistent and easy to understand...and her strategy only seems "crazy" if you take her hamsterization about "finding a good guy" at face value. The real question is, good guy for what? Fucking or paying?

Fuck or pay. Make your choice, gentlemen.

Limpador · 2013-06-14T22:32:33+00:00

That was me in the past. Always looking for ways to add input, being creative, helping out with a girl's stuff, giving her advice, lifting her spirits, encouraging her.

Well, didn't work!

[deleted] · 2013-06-14T23:12:10+00:00

she will break up with him. i wonder how her bf feels if he knew that he was 2nd place in her heart?

mrust · 2013-06-15T00:06:16+00:00

The best part of the writeup is:

I also feel that my current boyfriend loves me more than I do him. But maybe that's a good thing, because I was very codependent on Jake.

She's very clear on her status within each relationship, which is pretty insightful. But reasoning any deeper is just tiring her inner hamster.

VeryWideDoucheNozzle · 2013-06-14T23:18:52+00:00

She should spare him the non-consensual cuckoldry and break up with him.

By making that post alone; she's starting to rationalize the eventual betrayal & break-up with him. She wanted enough people to tell her that "If its NOT meant to be then its Not ment to be."

I don't feel sorry for the guy either; being a door mat is hardly a mating strategy let along pair-bonding for life (which he is thinking in his head).

LastRevision · 2013-06-15T14:11:41+00:00

"He's the only person I know who reads Wikipedia for fun"

Everyone else she knows reads Wikipedia for work?

YouDislikeMyOpinion · 2013-06-16T01:00:00+00:00

You'll see him when you both are 35 and he'll be single, rich and successful because you shit on his heart and he swore never to give that power to another woman as long as he lived. So while you spent your 20's hoping from fling to fling looking for that better and stronger connection, He spent his 20's busting his ass to make money, lift weights and focus on making himself the best man he could be.

Yup.

IllimitableMan · 2013-06-15T00:09:42+00:00

http://youmakemetouchyourhandsforstupidreasons.ytmnd.com/

W-Z-R · 2013-06-15T17:22:41+00:00

Ok, so general Redpill doctrine states that women prefer fucking Alphas (which is why she misses her ex even if he was abusive) because Alpha sperm is "better", is there a source on their sperm being somehow better?

Title	Girl says: My BF is a "pleasant addition" to my life- but I miss my alpha ex!
Author	yankeetiger
Upvotes	17
Comments	29
Date	June 14, 2013 10:03 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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