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Thinking of getting married?

Desmadre
April 18, 2013
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Title Thinking of getting married?
Author

Desmadre
Upvotes 0
Comments 21
Date April 18, 2013 7:09 PM UTC
(13 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1cmh50/thinking_of_getting_married/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/thinking-of-getting-married.234868
https://theredarchive.com/post/234868
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[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

TIL: Some marriages end in disaster.

[–]Desmadre 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Most.

[–]Igor_the_barbarian2 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Not most, but enough that you should be wary. I think its somewhere around a third to a fourth, so roughly the same chance as getting two heads in a row(flipping coins).

[–][deleted] -3 points-2 points-1 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Source?

[–]pencilears 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

is this subreddit supposed to be nothing but cuckold fetishists?

[–]MSoftHarem 8 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Read a few of the threads that have the "Blue Pill Example" flair and you'll quickly discover mountains of evidence for what not to do.

[–]Imissspeel 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

might as well cut off your balls and bury your money on a deserted island if your gonna get married dude.

[–]amalie_anomaly 0 points0 points0 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

If your marriage/wife ends up like this, you're marrying the wrong woman.

[–]Bobsutan 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

Said no one ever on their wedding day. Meaning nobody expects the woman the love to turn on them down the road. If anyone did think that and married anyway, then they got what they bargained for.

[–]amalie_anomaly0 points 13 years ago [recovered] (10 children) | Copy Link

I just find it really hard to believe that people do a complete 180 without any signs. Any time one of my friends is dating a closet crazy, there are always signs. I think the real problem is romanticizing people/love. It makes them blind to how fucking batshit their SO is. It's not marriage's fault that the people are shitty.

[–]Bobsutan 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

There usually are signs, but guys are terrible at spotting them. that's why qualification is so damn important.

[–]amalie_anomaly2 points 13 years ago [recovered] (8 children) | Copy Link

What do you mean by qualification?

[–]Bobsutan 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

http://funandsocial.blogspot.com/2013/02/newbie-guide-qualification-and.html

[–]amalie_anomaly1 points 13 years ago [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link

Yes. That's the problem, not the institution of marriage. Marriage in itself isn't a bad thing, it's when you're reckless and blind to seeing the actual, real, true person you're marrying that's the problem.

This is off topic, but could you tell me why I got down voted? What did I do wrong?

[–]Bobsutan 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Oh no, the institution of marriage is irrevocably broken as far as I'm concerned due to the laws on teh books, family court biases, and all the incentives for women to divorce for cash & prices. Tons of women who would have stuck it out are calling it quits because the grass looks greener thanks to all this.

[–]amalie_anomaly2 points 13 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

Even then, that's the women gaming the system (which is fairly sexist against men, unfortunately). I guess I see it as it's not marriage that entices women to be cruel and terrible, it's divorce. Divorce is the thing where all the fucked up laws and regulations really come into play, or at least that's how I see it.

Yes, I often kinda hate some members of my gender because so often they're money hungry hoes and unclassy swine, but that doesn't mean some of us aren't cool. It's rare to find that kind of woman, but they do exist. Some of us still believe marriage means forever. Some of us will stick around when it gets tough, some of us won't give up on the man we said we loved, no matter how hard it gets. It's just sadly very rare.

[–]be_tru 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The anti-marriage notion here isn't one against the ideas of marriage itself and commitment to a woman worthy of it. And of course, worthy women do exist. The problem is you can never fully know what the person you marry is capable of, and the royal assfucking men usually get when a woman decides to skip out just means it's probably not worth it.

[–]amalie_anomaly1 point 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I guess it's hard to see the other perspective, since I'm a romantic, and I know some girls are worth the risk of it all going to shit. Thanks for the insight.

[–]dropit_sphere 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Downvotes are similar to most relationship advice given by women---i.e., not worth paying attention to.

[–]amalie_anomaly2 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Oi, I give pretty decent relationship advice! Granted, it mostly consists of me telling my (usually male) friends to break up with that ugly slut, but it's still solid advice.

Thanks for the encouragement though. :)

[–][deleted] -4 points-3 points-2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This guy sounds like the prototypical beta.

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