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I'm fat and I don't shave or wear makeup. Also, I refuse to try new things. WHY DOES MY BOYFRIEND LOOK AT PORN??

nicethingyoucanthave
January 24, 2013
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Title I'm fat and I don't shave or wear makeup. Also, I refuse to try new things. WHY DOES MY BOYFRIEND LOOK AT PORN??
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nicethingyoucanthave
Upvotes 42
Comments 46
Date January 24, 2013 7:34 PM UTC
(13 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/177fya/im_fat_and_i_dont_shave_or_wear_makeup_also_i/
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Comments

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

That may have been the most reasonable thread I have ever seen on SRS. Obviously some people were crazy but most of the people in the thread said sane things. Twilight zone shit.

[–]Endorsed ContributorSarcasticus 24 points25 points26 points 13 years ago* (9 children) | Copy Link

My comment:

I'm chubby

I don't shave anything

I don't wear makeup

The masculine attracts the feminine. The feminine attracts the masculine.

I look forward to being banned. EDIT: Banned!

[–]Modredpillschool 8 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

I replied to yours.

How on earth do they not understand the circle jerk of banning men no matter what? I mean, when their sole argument is "girls only boys drool" and ours is, "avoid ad hominem attacks and we won't ban you.."

Objectively there's a lack of intellectual rigor over there.

[–]Endorsed ContributorSarcasticus 14 points15 points16 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

There's a lack of intellectual rigour in feminism. Period.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Correct. Application of intellectual rigor would cause feminism to fall apart.

[–]ysef95 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

yeah finding out that they ban men automatically really sums up the difference in the two movements we are willing to talk with women and promote equality between the sexes and fairness for all they simply want women to remain completely dominant in society and i feel like thats a bit shitty

[–]AngelBlu666 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I have just discovered this sub reddit and I am female. I do not like SRS women for this reason, and I do not go there after my first few exploratory missions.

I am here out of curiosity, and whilst you do not ban females you also do seem to be extreme about some things. Hey, I am not judging here, and not talking about this thread.

In regards, to this thread. OK, he may like girls with a bit more meat, and he probably likes (or liked) her for a reason. If she hasn't changed since the start (doubtful), then she should have nothing to freak out about. Personally, I think she is an idiot who probably used to shave, do light make up, have presentable (not necessarily polished nails), and probably made herself out to seem more adventurous at the start.

Relationships that start on falsehoods do not last.

[–]ysef95 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah I agree that some points are a bit extreme i think as with anything you need to take it with a pinch of salt research deeply and form your own opinions.

If you havent already you should read the sidebarred posts they are quite interesting and might give you a better idea of the opinions and their origins contained in this thread.

Good luck and I hope you can learn at least a few things from this community :D

[–]AngelBlu666 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you for the reply, it was much nicer than I had expected to be honest. I will definitely check out the side-barred posts. Thanks again :)

[–]Bobsutan 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Objectively there's a lack of intellectual rigor over there.

Welcome to SRS. It's best to just do like teh rest of reddit and pretend they dont exist. When they venture into other reddits, be sure to call them out and tell them they're not welcome. If they can't be bothered to let others in their reddit without kowtowing then they should only expect the same in other reddits.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm so tempted to make a comment just to get banned

Edit: mission accomplished.

[–]itsmehobnob 11 points12 points13 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Which one of you rapscallions made the deleted comment? What did it say?

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

+1, for using the word rapscallions

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

All the deleted comments (courtesy of unedditreddit):

If you have an expectation of limiting his porn/masturbation, you should be available to satisfy his urges 24/7.

I'm chubby >I don't shave anything >I don't wear makeup The masculine attracts the feminine. The feminine attracts the masculine.

In response to above comment (also deleted):

If you're worried about being attractive, you could start wearing makeup, shave, and exercise.

One of them has no data :(

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points18 points 13 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

I find that I compare myself to the girls in the porn he watches or the gw posts he reads. I'm chubby, they're skinny. I don't shave anything, they're hairless and tanned and their hair is straightened and colored. I don't wear makeup or have pretty nails, their faces are painted perfectly and their nails are flawless. They squirt, they can do anal and all the positions I find uncomfortable or just don't like.

LMFAO!!!

[Edit] Omg, the top comment is even better:

Personally I know, abstractly, that my SO uses porn to get off when I'm not around, or not in the mood, or what-not. The thing is I have never seen his porn! and I don't watch porn in general. I know that SO likes things that are outside the mainstream (generally speaking) so for all I know he watches porn from the 70s which is full of curvier women (shaped like me!) and hairy as women come (like me!). I can't check, since I don't know where it is, and that's perfectly fine by me. He tells me he loves me as I am, and I take it at face value because I really don't know otherwise.

So, I'd suggest that you don't investigate what his porn looks like. For all you'll know he's getting off on women who look just like you and then when hey! He gets to be with you! it's even better because it's his fantasy come to life :)

See? It's all how you frame it - and where you choose to keep your ignorance.

See? The hamster will fix everything for you! Grrl power!

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp 8 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That guy must be desperate.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

When people are starving to death in the desert, they will eat shit and drink piss to stay alive.

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points14 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Jesus, where do these people come from? It's like a fucking echo chamber in there.

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points14 points 13 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Feminist landwhales who buy into the "acceptance" movement. 98% of the feminists from Reddit wouldn't even make a blip on my radar, and the 2% who are actually attractive I would pump and dump as soon I found out they were feminists.

[–]Modredpillschool 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh the solipsistic hampster, look at it spin. "It's as if the woman's pain is supposed to be a turn-on. It really bothers me that my husband (and, apparently, a large number of male viewers of YouPorn) could find that appealing. I question whether someone could truly respect women as human beings and enjoy that kind of porn."

If something turns him on, then it reflects how he feels about me.

[–]Modredpillschool 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

"The agreement we have is that I don't care if he looks at porn, but I don't want to know about it. Do it when I'm not home, and don't tell me about it. I don't think this is unfair."

What kind of fucked up relationships are these where women have a say in a guy's porn habits? Even as a beta chump when I was in a relationship, my porn or masturbation habits were not discussed, and certainly not debated.

[–]Modredpillschool 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Delete and ban in 3...2...1...

http://i.imgur.com/kinRs3r.jpg

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just got mine for attempting to help the OP. /flex

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No fat chicks.

[–]Bobsutan 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

SRS is a lost cause. Let them play in their little corner of reddit. Just remember to banish them back whenever they step out of their circlejerkdom.

[–]MartialWay 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think people are missing the funny part - she is sometimes watching the porn with him - pleasuring herself to the same slim shaved babes she's complaining about. Can't even admit that's what turns HER on too.

[–]RedHonest 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Being jealous of the women I jerk to is as absurd as being jealous of the tissue I jizz in.

[–][deleted] 13 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link

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[–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points 13 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link

Does this mean women define what is masculine? With the popularity of Justin Bieber and the general pussification of males in general this seems like a slippery slope at best.

[–][deleted] 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]Modredpillschool 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree with you in the sense that women determine what is masculine (i.e. if nobody will fuck you, it's been determined). But I don't think it's a conscious effort. It's weird you got so many downvotes.

[–]ysef95 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

yeah i feel like that would be fair however there are obviously differences in each genders view of masculinity/femininity they define it for them and we define it for us and this is why i feel like long term relationships and marriages are sort of doomed from the start because each side wants different things from themselves and the others

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

Biology defines attraction, so biology defines what the sexes should identify as, in order to promote said attraction.

[–]Endorsed ContributorSarcasticus 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Not to mention this biological attraction has been cultivated over hundreds of thousands of years. 4000 years of civilzation doesn't wipe out those biological cues.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly, but a century of feminism has certainly done it...

[–][deleted] 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Fair enough.

[–][deleted] 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

AS WE USUALLY DO CAPTAIN.

[–]ysef95 -2 points-1 points0 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

youre talking about the scientific and logical view and im talking about sociological ideology and societal pressures affecting male and female rationale.

you are making a very good point and i agree but i think there are two sides to every 'fact' and i feel like even when science totally understands something peoples ignorance can still overcome rational logic for example the idea of centrifugal force which doesnt exist but people's belief that it does makes it partly a 'fact'

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The point of swallowing the pill is not allowing cultural indoctrination to cloud your judgement. Objectivity, logic, and adaptation are our best tools in the game of life. Biology is the only true authority in this world, never forget that.

[–]ysef95 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

definitely for men like you and me this is the case my point was that for other people they still follow the "cultural indoctrination"

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Men define all, I suppose.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

We're certainly the most qualified, however, biology defines what is attractive. At the end of the day your primary purpose in life is to make more of you. To that end, everything that modern attractive people do to promote their sex appeal is built upon hundreds of thousands of years of evolutionary biology. Masculinity and Femininity are concepts that will change with time but will always be based on biology. This is the exact reason why feminism is doomed to fail.

[–]Bobsutan 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Guess what ladies? You don't get to define what is attractive. Only men can do that.

FTFY. Attraction is not a choice, it's an instinctual response to external stimuli that's heavily guided by evolution.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

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