Stopping porn and masturbation made me come quicker

Ohboohoolittlegirl · 2019-05-08T15:48:18+00:00

Blowjob first. You get to tell her you never came that fast from such a great Blowjob and then fuck her when you've recovered and you can last longer.

Mr_Flim_Flam · 2019-05-08T15:53:32+00:00

If you stress about it you’ll only end up getting in your head and make this cycle continue. When you actually have sex don’t worry about coming fast. If it happens it happens, just get ready for the next round. That’s where I have the most fun after my first nut. I last forever after the 1st nut and feel like I’m totally in control of everything.

LordFa9 · 2019-05-08T15:47:10+00:00

I find PMO makes it worse for me

It was when I had a bunch of plates and was having regular sex that I could last maybe 8 or so mins for the first round and easily twice that for the 2nd

TehJimmyy · 2019-05-08T15:54:36+00:00

I would prefer this situation than watching porn 3-4 time a day.Go for round 2.

comounamanzana · 2019-05-08T15:18:22+00:00

do kegels

and don't worry second round makes you bust less quicker

Babyoil707 · 2019-05-09T01:02:25+00:00

Meth

throwitdownman · 2019-05-08T16:36:50+00:00

Simply pace yourself.

My practical advice is to be in charge. If my sex-addict plate rides me like no tomorrow, I’m not lasting long. If I’m pounding her from behind or on top, I could control the pace.

Second tip: Do something to lubricate her vag. It makes that shit less tight. Less tight = less friction. Less friction = less pressure on your second head. Less pressure = longer lasting.

Either do it through foreplay, or get those condoms with lube, or straight-up use lube. Guaranteed success.

ugluk1 · 2019-05-08T16:06:52+00:00

Age will fix this, just wait it out. I'd say control porn, as well as fap, to prevent the death grip syndrome. It's a delicate balance.

rcwhitaker · 2019-05-08T16:40:37+00:00

I think you should try to cut masturbating out altogether.

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2019-05-09T00:04:13+00:00

Edging while masturbating. Also, during sex: think about other things such as focus on a point on the wall or a strand of her hair whatever, breathing techniques, etc.

aDrunkenWhaler · 2019-05-08T23:37:58+00:00

Pro tip: make the foreplay longer and go down on her, make her cum, and then fuck her. Even if you last 2 min, in her mind she will add all the minutes before, and because she came, she will see it as great sex. Then wait 15 min and fuck her again. You'll last longer, and she will see you as a stud. Do this for a few days in a row and you will stop cuming fast.

fortknox1997 · 2019-05-08T15:18:10+00:00

Working on this too. Would appreciate some advice.

Did it a few times with a girl. One time lasted quite a while when I paced myself >30 min

DebonairD · 2019-05-08T16:49:10+00:00

It takes time to adjust. You need to be transmuting all the sexual energy in the interim.

JSuma · 2019-05-08T18:49:38+00:00

Practice unfortunately. There’s a strange balance in confidence and relaxing the pelvic floor I had to develop.

andreas-mgtow · 2019-05-08T21:47:47+00:00

...enough to make me come in 2 mins.

Happy for you, on kicking out your porn addiction. As far as the 2mins part... that might work against you long term.

GisforJumping · 2019-05-09T03:55:24+00:00

If it takes very little to get you aroused, masturbate the morning before anticipated sex. Besides that during sex focus on relaxing, not on orgasming or preventing orgasms. Practice edging... I practice this during every sex session til I hit the hour mark.

HurricaneHugues · 2019-05-09T04:31:36+00:00

You know you're allowed to cum more than once right?

ElvisDimera · 2019-05-09T21:08:00+00:00

Cant believe nobody here has suggest anti depressents

divine_pizza · 2019-05-14T17:13:03+00:00

I did NoFap for a year and a half and this was my issue too. What helped me was practice: Foreplay for a long time then try to start off in a position that doesn't make you cum quick. Don't jump into the positions that feel amazing right off the bat. Pause and foreplay when you feel like you're about to cum and get back into it when you feel ready.

lexileone · 2019-05-08T16:38:42+00:00

focus on getting a girl, to your bed then consider your penis.

if you're still nervous just jerk off 6hours before getting laid.

Title	Stopping porn and masturbation made me come quicker
Author	lifeisweirdasfuck
Upvotes	21
Comments	29
Date	May 8, 2019 2:36 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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