Guy and I have made extensive flirty eye contact at the gym. I was feeling shy one day and immediately looked down when he tried to give me a sexy stare, and ever since he's been pretending to ignore me but I can tell he's been glancing at me a lot still.
What's the best way to show I'm definitely interested without being the one to approach first? Should I smile, walk by and say "hi"?
I say this because I hear from multiple sources that men prefer to do the chasing, and that they value what they have to work for more. But I think a lot of men are afraid of being seen as creepy in a gym. So I want to appear inviting but not aggressive.
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Ask for spot.
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"What's the best way to show I'm definitely interested without being the one to approach first?"
When you start to take control of your own love life by chasing after what you desire, you'll see more success. How many men in your life have you asked out in person? If <5, then you don't know if men like to 'chase'. I find a girl asking me out is hot and confident.
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Thanks for the encouragement! I was thinking of just walking by and smiling and saying hello and introducing myself, and then sort of seeing what happens from there. He seems interested so at least I have that.
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