By posting this I can acknowledge the oneitis sentiment. But I want a general lesson out of it.

So this girl has been ghosting me, and in my mind I nexted her. I ain't taking the rejection well cause I have a past of parental abandonment and probably oneitis too.

For me, I wanna know if she contacts me again (it's gonna happen cause she needs me for her career stuff). What's the best way to deal with her?

Cause I can go off on her or just ignore her the same way she did to me? Do you even tell such a person that you're angry with them? Doesn't make sense cause they probably don't give a damn about you.

My current decision is to ignore her, find abundance and go lift. Dunno what to do about that rejection feeling tho, but I think it'll go away with time.