Be solid, get plates. Promote one, catch feelings, start slacking, get dropped. How can I break this cycle?

trancedj · 2019-05-24T00:23:34+00:00

Man, you just gotta enjoy the time you have with her and know that it’s just your turn. Unicorns don’t exist. Even if they did at one time they went extinct decades ago.

Enjoy the time you have with her. Enjoy the feelings, the adventures, and the dance; try and savor each moment. And try your best not to be a controlling beta-bitch. When your time is up, recognize it and end things on your terms. It’s the best you can do. Stay on your purpose and enjoy the in-between time you have where the only person you have to take care of is you.

Eventually you’ll come to cherish the time you have without women more than having one in your life. Remember, women should never be the focus of your life, they should be a compliment to it.

If you want kids that’s a whole other topic.

infamous3238 · 2019-05-24T00:25:46+00:00

By reminding yourself “she’s not yours it’s just your turn” and having other options available (abundance) for when your turn is over.

More importantly, NEVER let yourself get off track with your work, lifting, and hobbies. Always be striving to make yourself better today than the day before.

itiswr1tten · 2019-05-24T03:32:09+00:00

Promote is one of my asktrp flag words.

Who talked who into a committed relationship?

Second question.

Why would you ever get "off track" on anything because you had an LTR? Doesn't sound like you've been around here at all, though I understand you may have meant "been around the block"

mrmaldoror · 2019-05-24T02:57:58+00:00

Make stronger male friendships. Brothers in arms sort of shit.

Elvis_Death · 2019-05-24T11:08:35+00:00

you wanna swallow a pill? here's one: being a "good dude" isn't worth the dogshit i have to scrape off my boot.

fuck a "good dude." any "dude" is a faggot. the word "dude" denotes a faggot. flush "dude" from your lexicon.

you wanna be loved? so don't we all. 3.5 billion men on the planet and we all wanna "be loved."

the cycle you are going through is the right track. that's how you learn and progress homeboy. fail forward.

a bitch can't love you if she doesn't respect you. command respect. DOMINATE the bitches.

this world is full of soft males (not men) who get run over and chumped around by females. bitches do not want soft boys. they already have pussies they dont need to hang around and "date" another one. bitches crave (consciously/unconsciously) dominant masculinity. and it is easy to dominate their bodies---nature built us this way. the trick is to dominate their MINDS.

drop the concept of "Dude." dude is a weak faggot effeminate male. drop the concept of "good." only the good die young.

grow some balls, take a risk and DOMINATE your bitch's MIND. no mercy. they call it holding "FRAME"

in practical terms this looks like you giving your bitch orders to follow. tell her how to do shit to PLEASE YOU. tell her what you want. command her to deliver results. do not waver and be a soyboy who accepts her mere presence. if the bitch is to be gifted with your attention and presence then she has to ADD VALUE by delivering results and being submissive.

you dominate her mind by commanding her to behave in certain ways. you command behavior. that is how you EARN her respect and that is how you garner her love. you state what you want. period. her task is to deliver what you want. if she doesn't deliver.....she can fuck the fuck off. no mercy. short life. do you have time / energy to waste on whores who don't deliver?

man they will try to run you like a chump. they will see how much they can take without giving. they will test. that's where "Frame" comes in. you create reality. she either serves you or fucks off. that's "FRAME." she will test you by saying shit like, "you only think about yourself,, your reality is one sided, you have no remorse or compassion..." that's when you know you are doing it. that is FRAME.

so, fuck the idea of a "good dude." being "good" is being in their frame. (and being a DUDE is being a FAG).

command a bitch's behavior then you get respect then you get love.

booyah

tikitheman · 2019-05-24T01:38:41+00:00

Your looking for mommy bro. She doesn't exist.

[deleted] · 2019-05-24T03:51:24+00:00

stop promoting

Redditgoodaccount · 2019-05-24T11:45:25+00:00

Bro...

Isn't it the best moment to go Monk? Yes.

Isn't it the best moment to start a new path uphill? Oh yes and actually summer/spring is the best moment of the year with a lot of cheap activities available and hormones to the stars.

It is also the best moment to accept and internalize that you can't be 100% rational, it's a good moment to realize we have a duty towards ourselves and it's to be the best men we can and the best man ALSO has romanticism, weakness, feelz*.

The discipline, the frame, the gym, the game, is meant to build you and sustain you , to make your life sustainable and performing and not to put it in the hands of someone else because of *these.

That one who never gets dragged is a psychopath, period.

Your model is the man who keeps his shit together even when it happens to catch feelings for a woman because he's a man regardless her presence or not, because he built something that cannot be taken away.

Don't focus too much on the "DO NOT", shift your focus and effort on what you want to be and build it.

There's a big difference between catching feelings and getting carried away like a ship at the mercy of waves. waves are fun if you have control.

Square up.

Best

MattyAnon · 2019-05-24T14:10:30+00:00

I've lived in the acceptance phase

If you fully accepted you wouldn't revert.

pissed that I essentially have to get back on track in order to be deemed "worthy" of a woman giving a shit about me

Women don't give a shit about you even when fully on track.... but at least they're attracted.

You've not fully accepted the ole' red pill, this is why you revert. You keep thinking "yes yes, nod to the red pill, then settle into a beta relationship". You're using TRP to further BP goals, and this is fucking you up because it seems to work. For a while. And then it doesn't.

frontiermarine · 2019-05-24T16:24:29+00:00

Fuck man I just want to be loved, I'm a good fucking dude.

And there's your problem, you need to seek validation within yourself not women. You may think you're not but women can sense insecurity/neediness from a mile away. You have to get to the point where you REALLY don't give a fuck about them and you will experience women trying their hardest to please you.

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