Been with LTR for almost a year now.

Every few weeks, I want to do anal on her and we do it.

She was down for it before, but now she said she doesn't want to do it because "it hurts". Not the best experience for her, but she did it to please me. She still put out that night though, but she never pulled that line on me like that before, seeming adamant to not do it.

Should I up the dread? Will this continue to happen just by the length of the LTR increasing?