Hi folks,

So, there's this 5/10, 29yo single mother, who lives nearby and who I honestly only intend to fook -at best.

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She's totally unfit for a LTR: unstable, takes drugs & meds, and promiscuous (I sometimes see younger guys I don't know climbing her stairs).

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In 2 years of living nearby, we only hooked up twice before, and she tried to Betabuxx me every time:

  • 1st, by asking if I could burn her CD music compilations (I suggested she brings the blank media; probably didn't like this part);
  • 2nd, by asking for DIY stuff (tools, nails... only caved twice).

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She's been getting closer last week.

She asked if she could grab coffee, actually came to my place, had a nice chat.

Invited me back twice. 2nd time, she was actually repairing stuff and complaining : "See, I'm doing man's stuff too... I have no husband". She kept repairing instead of talking to me, this got on my nerves so I asked to leave -she didn't object.

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So I ghosted her for 2 days. I have now 10 texts on my phone; here are the most relevant ones:

"Still not home ? Can I come ? Tell me when you're back."

"I need some help here"

(after some time)

"If it involves, I could pay you, you know"

"Been depressed this weekend. A very sad love story"

(I ask about the actual love story)

"The kind of story that lefts you wondering" (quickly ends the convo)

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How do you see it? Have you ever been able to quickly escalate from such a shitty position? Because IMHO:

- she's making up a love story to have me emotionally invested;

- but by evoking money, she also seeks an easy way out of the sex "covert contract".

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My own take: ghost her completely. What do you think ?