Is there such a thing as a "in crowd" of popular and attractive people after high school and college here in the USA? (sex, secret society, lays, etc.)

OKJaded · 2014-11-06T02:42:31+00:00

It becomes about scenes. Music, Art, Biking, Body Building, Banking, Clubbing, Drugs, it goes on and on. Yes there is always an inner circle. There is always a core group of people at the core of it.

AreYouAware_ · 2014-11-06T02:12:02+00:00

There absolutely is, but it goes deeper than this. No matter what group you wander into, once you get to 10 or more people, it will have its own cool kids club. You'll either get on with them or you won't, and if you don't you're really just a hanger-on.

Regardless of your niche or social pool, you have to identify who is really on top and mesh with them.

dropit_reborn · 2014-11-06T02:44:19+00:00

Yes, and no. Yes in that, well, go to any club . Or work for a company and notice how workers and managers are treated differently, etc.

No in that there is no single worldwide conspiracy of self-anointed cool people. Or if there is one (Rockefellers? Kennedys?), you don't need to join it.

raystantz · 2014-11-06T04:56:58+00:00

Around my small town (12k) in the 25-35 crowd it's the white collar folks that have annual holiday parties at their homes. One does after the football games, another couple does Halloween, another does the Friday after thanksgiving, another ugly sweater party around Christmas, another does the NYE masked party, another superbowl, another valentine's day, etc. etc. etc.

For the middle aged folks they do weekend day trips to someone's boat, cabin, into the city, casino, the country club, etc. etc. etc.

The older folks I'm not sure, I think they do bridge, bingo, bocce, brunches and other things that start with b.

Very rarely do they do public venues in large groups, I think the barrier to entry makes them feel more relaxed. Lots of small town drama though, but I think the women like it that way. Kind of like an exclusive club that's not exclusive at all, just judgmental.

whitey_male · 2014-11-06T06:16:13+00:00

I don't think so. I think there's just groups of people with a few hot people in it and mostly not hot people in it.

Probably the closest you'll get is to look into the social pages of your local paper. But a lot of those people are dolled up wearing $1k dresses and are just sickly rich types, and who the fuck wants to attend a party for the celebration of a new brand of bottled water or something?

This is pretty much the most successful banker in the world, Geithner. His wife ain't that great.

http://www.washingtonpost.com/rf/image_606w/2010-2019/WashingtonPost/2011/10/14/Style/Images/da101310.jpg

But if you believed movies like Eyes Wide Shut they're having orgies with the most unbelievably gorgeous women every Friday night? Maybe they are. I find it doubtful.

IVIaskerade · 2014-11-06T11:58:23+00:00

In a word, yes. There are the "party people" who look like "normal" people but will be out until 4am dancing, drinking and fucking. There are a lot of hot girls in this crowd, but unless you're top 5% (money isn't so much of a thing here, it's mostly looks/attitude), you really shouldn't bother.

Just be warned - there are a lot of drugs of dubious quality going around the scene, and the girls who live it don't tend to be the sort to get tested regularly.

RonSauce1 · 2014-11-06T02:05:35+00:00

They're called country clubs.

VegasHostTre · 2014-11-06T06:23:08+00:00

As long as theirs any social gathering, there's always an inner circle.

[deleted] · 2014-11-06T11:36:16+00:00

If you are a true alpha why would you care? It seems needy to me to be a follower. If you want it and have swallowed the red pill (I.e. increased smv) you can either create your own 'in crowd' or they will naturally seek you out as a desirable member of the community.

The 'Eyes wide shut' sex life is not the goal, it is a benefit.

kanaduhisfruityeh · 2014-11-06T10:26:49+00:00

No. Here's why: when you're in school you're trapped in the closed circle of your high school or college. You're dealing with the same people all the time. After HS/college you can go wherever you want. Everybody isn't stuck in the same circle anymore.

ohhaio · 2014-11-06T14:58:01+00:00

r/swingers

every large city has swinger clubs, ask around

or get some $ and blow and hang out with strippers, if that's what you want.

Title	Is there such a thing as a "in crowd" of popular and attractive people after high school and college here in the USA? (sex, secret society, lays, etc.)
Author	sexuallyfrustratedM
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Date	November 6, 2014 1:57 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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