So I have sought opinion about this girl before and it was spot on. I followed it to the hilt and I was doing good. Now this girl keeps wanting to "know more" and talk about "feelings". Yesterday at 2am she sent me these msgs all at once (I haven't replied yet)
[7/2, 1:26 AM] A : Alright..I can't tolerate this attitude I have always been upfront about everything I ever felt .. whether it was supposed to be said or not But your tone tonight was totally different..I can tell that after knowing you for like 3.5 weeks now [7/2, 1:27 AM] A : I am not this person who texts anyone [7/2, 1:27 AM] A : I have always hated texting [7/2, 1:28 AM] A : But still I was doing it idk why [7/2, 1:57 AM] A : I want to say so much But I don't want to make it ugly..let's leave it [7/2, 2:12 AM] A : I am getting addicted to talking to you daily I seem to be caring for you more than you doing it for me I always wanted to be on the same page because that is the only way online dating apps can work ..but here I am deflecting I agree it's all my fault..you have nothing to do about it It's all what my brain is making me to believe ..or maybe it's just this phase I am in (pms) I have no fucking idea ..but I told you I like to be very clear about my thoughts [7/2, 2:14 AM] A : I like you..I like talking to you & Yes I want answers in detail when I ask or tell anything [7/2, 2:14 AM] A : But all this mess that I have created in my mind needs to be cleared out [7/2, 2:15 AM] A : That's what I wanted to talk about [7/2, 2:16 AM] A : So let's stop talking.. I am anyway unable to see our conversations to be destined for anything in future [7/2, 2:17 AM] A : It's not going anywhere [7/2, 2:18 AM] A : & we both are very clear that either of us will end up hurting the other [7/2, 2:18 AM] A : Neither I want to be hurt nor I want to hurt you [7/2, 2:18 AM] A : I don't want to fall in any of the categories [7/2, 2:20 AM] A : I have been on both the sides & it sucks I am being very cautious this time to not repeat any mistakes [7/2, 2:23 AM] A : I have always enjoyed talking to you You are an amazing person & will be a very special acquaintance for me :) [7/2, 2:24 AM] A : You can count on me anytime if you ever need me :) [7/2, 2:25 AM] A : Please don't reply with "okay." this time I have poured my heart out & it's very rare for me to do [7/2, 2:26 AM] A : & you are successful in making me the '64 message girl' finally.. kudos to you for that :p
So how do I deal with this now. I don't want to lose my frame. You guys have helped me a lot in dealing with these dramas but how do I deal with this. I was going to cave in but I thought you guys would know better. Please help. (Also is this normal )
Edit- Thanks guys for the clarity. I wrote her back this - It sounds as if you aren’t happy and don't want this to proceed any further. I totally understand your point of view. I have really enjoyed our time together and although I don't know why you are doing this suddenly, I guess you have your reasons and have thought this through so all I can say is best of luck to you.
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