I'm a 19 year old student and realized that this year I've been uselessly chasing girls instead of focusing on more important stuff. I keep hearing from people around me that I need to focus on my purpose and put it before anything, and I agree with this as I don't want to be mindlessly cruising through life without a direction. However, I don't currently know what my purpose is and don't want to force one for the sake of it. It's not like I don't do anything, I work out and play an instrument and enjoy my college studies to some extent. But I think that if I found a purpose, my life would be infinitely better than if I kept thirstily chasing girls like I did this year.