A plate died and I feel guilty. What the fuck should I do?

RedPill-BlackLotus · 2019-07-17T19:34:46+00:00

Well it looks like you had some feelings for that one man. That sucks that she died.

Dont avoid this pain, dont shy away from it and definitely dont get drunk. Feel it and experience it, drink it all In and let it change you. This is a rich life experience.

I might be so bold to say that a part of you might not like the way you have been behaving up untill now, and this is some valuable feedback.

I'm sorry for your loss man.

Hang in there and ditch the bottle.

CasualtyOfHedonism · 2019-07-17T22:36:56+00:00

You getting free stuff didn’t kill her.

[deleted] · 2019-07-17T19:52:59+00:00

Sorry for your loss.

If you feel guilty, stop leeching off of other girls. That's the only rational thing to do.

X--Man · 2019-07-17T19:33:47+00:00

Accidents happen man. I have lost a few friends/family/and people I know along the way. There is always a small form of guilt. "What could I have done?" Type stuff. Its normal. Mourn the way you mourn and realize you didn't cause this or couldn't have prevented it.

Rkingpin · 2019-07-17T20:58:32+00:00

You didnt force them to give shit to you. Also theres more happiness in giving than receiving so as long as you showed some gratitude they felt good being generous.

This will sting for a while but shes gone so stop drinking the pain away and move on with life

Brushyourteethm8 · 2019-07-17T20:52:03+00:00

Sorry to hear it.

I've recently written a post about clearing out negative emotions - some releasing would help if you're able to

Eminencemiddle · 2019-07-17T22:39:20+00:00

Stop drinking.

p3nmansh1p · 2019-07-17T22:57:23+00:00

Be better. Treat people with more respect. Live your best self in their memory.

Estrogenoxygen · 2019-07-17T23:22:14+00:00

Alcohol doesn’t solve it dissolves.

faustian_talos · 2019-07-18T09:41:04+00:00

Stop behaving like shit.

TRPonlySubsBanTRPppl · 2019-07-17T23:50:37+00:00

There's nothing to feel bad for if you weren't responsible for the actual death physically. Unless you know her reasons, it might have nothing to do with you at all. If you were mentioned, some people let themselves be taken advantage of but hate that they are this way. Think of all the feminists right now who are working 50 hours / week trying to be women CEOs. Some of those women are going to hate themselves in a few years because they didn't take time for their personal lives and so either that and / or their health went to shit. They are not going to hold themselves responsible for that because it's hard for people to accept responsibility for stuff like that. They are going to hold corporate America responsible for that. That's just how the world is. People like leaders when interests are aligned, but they become devils when they don't anymore. That's just how life is, man.

I am assuming you didn't do any physical abuse or use hurting / threatening tactics, too. If you did, just take a look at yourself, make some improvements, and move on. Don't ruin two lives instead of one, that doesn't help anyone.

[deleted] · 2019-07-18T01:07:35+00:00

I'm sorry for your loss, it doesn't change the world we live in.

BurnieSlander · 2019-07-18T01:57:49+00:00

You don’t feel guilty about her death. You feel bad because her death caused you to finally pause for a moment of self reflection and you don’t like what you see in yourself. Like you said- you are a leech. Getting girls to gift you shit isn’t a fucking goal or way of life. Be a better person.

Title	A plate died and I feel guilty. What the fuck should I do?
Author	nothingtoshowguy
Upvotes	8
Comments	16
Date	July 17, 2019 7:25 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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