Hello guys, first of all I'd like to thank everyone who contributed in some way to this project. It's really life changing. What I would like to ask is the following. Let's say I hang out with a girl to know if she is good material or not. We go on a couple of dates, kiss have sex etc. But then after 2-3 months if you did a good job you'd get the "What are we?" talk. Let's say that the girl was nice to me and I like her but I don't want to commit to a LTR or whatever. What's the best approach here? Ghosting is dicarted since I think it's very disrespectful, specially if the girl didn't do anything wrong to you. I think that the most gentleman way to handle this is to say simply "I'm not looking for a ltr right now, but I love hanging out with you". Now you gave her the ball and she has to decide if she wants to stay or leave, so is not your choice and you are not manipulating her into thinking that someday maybe you'll be together monogamously. Is this the correct approach?

I'm open to all kinds of ideas.