My ex girlfriend wasn’t very attractive. We went out for 1.5 years. One of the girls I’ve been seeing and trying to game saw what my ex looked like. She asked me why I went out with someone so ugly and that usually guys would just sleep with a girl like that on a last call kind of night and not mention it. I told her she’s shallow.

She told me she is pissed because I haven’t been respecting her or treating her right, yet it seems like I put a lot of value in a girl that’s ugly. She asked me if I had low self esteem or if she placed too high of value on me.

Do girls usually judge based off this? How do I handle this situation?

Edit: if someone messages me can you tell me if my ex was that ugly?