Why is everyone here so damn uptight?

TheDreadnought1 · 2019-07-20T15:15:28+00:00

Fuck you

No, but, for real, that should be a place in where a lot of men first know and then are frequently reminded of a very harsh truth, a very bitter pill. The anger phase is usually the longest and hardest to escape for a reason. I'd say is normal that many people here are kinda pissed

Also it's a place for men to learn how to be men, so a place where we don't need to be polite. It's relaxing to have somewhere where, if someone is talking shit, you just come to them and say fuck you, without society marking you as an asshole or something

Also fuck you :)

Nfuckedmeup · 2019-07-20T18:09:53+00:00

Because half of the people in this sub are IRL betas so they come here to larp and to vent their anger. Most of the time it comes off just cringy. I suggest you listen to the people who come off as rational and stoic.

LoveLord1000 · 2019-07-20T18:49:55+00:00

There are a lot of dweebs that like larping at being an alpha, and try to mimic alpha behaviours in the same way a teenage girl puts on make up.

Onidramon · 2019-07-20T16:58:18+00:00

Man your guess is as good as mine. I’m sure a bunch of people have some psychology theories to rationalize it but since there’s literally zero stakes on the Internet, I don’t think it’s necessary as a “training” mechanism. It’s not beta to write to others like a regular person

Carbone · 2019-07-20T18:59:15+00:00

Understand that for a big part of the community they always felt they were doing the right thing but got no reward from it. They visit this sub, learned that the rules her mother told them was fake and there was in fact a whole new set of rules not taught to them. They read about them, learn them and felt cheated by the system.

The natural reaction is to take back what was robbed from them. They start acting aggro/dominant etc... as a power move to reach a new place in their life.

Eventually they calm down by finding their own equilibrium and stop aggroing stranger online.

NoKoala4 · 2019-07-20T19:02:31+00:00

Ego boost

thrwy75479 · 2019-07-20T15:59:46+00:00

Anger is part of our emotional makeup, and should not be denied. It has many benefits:

Within the context of TRP, anger can act as a force necessary to improve your life.

Rkingpin · 2019-07-20T15:29:46+00:00

Dont cry

beardestbird · 2019-07-20T19:00:46+00:00

If asktrp was a club of men meeting and asking questions they would do the same. It’s to toughen you up in a way. At least that’s how I see it. I grew up around dudes like this so it’s not a big deal

TheBadGoy · 2019-07-20T17:26:09+00:00

Upvoted! Oh and democrats are the real racists! Edit: thanks for the gold kind stranger!

NabroleonBonaparte · 2019-07-20T18:00:53+00:00

OP: Guyz can’t we all just get along! My mom (single mother) warned me about assholes like you. So all 200k+ (idk the fucking number bro, chill) should do what I say and be nice!

TRP was here before you, if you think it’s “toxic” and you don’t like the language and can’t see the forest for the trees, you might be beyond saving...

Gtfo

Exactly_what_I_think · 2019-07-20T18:17:54+00:00

Giving other men shit an essential of a healthy male atmosphere.

Distractingyou · 2019-07-20T15:49:21+00:00

Its fun

nilsenjr · 2019-07-20T18:56:35+00:00

I'd say you would be an exceptionally evolved human being if you, after had the core of your ego poked and commiting to change your worldview as drastically as many trpers have, showed nothing but pure rationalism.

And also it's refreshing to get direct and no bs feedback. Excessive contempt and superiority though is uncalled for, but why pay attention to that if you can choose not to?

gjproflip · 2019-07-20T15:13:34+00:00

You know what? When you get pushed around in real life all the time it’s nice to have a place to go where you’re the fucking boss. Ok? Is that o-fucking-k with you? Fuckin betas...

Title	Why is everyone here so damn uptight?
Author	Johnnycocket
Upvotes	48
Comments	33
Date	July 20, 2019 3:08 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/cfmtfe/why_is_everyone_here_so_damn_uptight/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/why-is-everyone-here-so-damn-uptight.246741 https://theredarchive.com/post/246741

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