Men want relationships just not with "you"--how do I handle this when people say this to me?

ThorsdaySaturnday · 2019-07-29T02:59:02+00:00

I was told the same thing over 10 years ago, I wasn't feminine enough and my personality wasn't attractive for dating. But that's why you're here! It's a chance for you to begin to learn about yourself and how to improve yourself to be more feminine. The truth does hurt (and trust me, I was hurt and angry), but once you get past it and accept it, you will be well on your way to being dateable. Read the sidebar, ask questions. You have a whole community of women here to support you.

boom-boom-betty · 2019-07-29T02:11:11+00:00

There’s something about your behavior you need to modify in order to keep a good man. You deserve a captain and you will have him. You just have to figure out what is pushing them away.

If you already know what it is, then you are ahead of the game. Just work on modifying that behavior. It won’t happen overnight that is for sure. It will take time and feel very foreign at first. But stick with it, and it will become normal, and there will be an even better you, who is attracting excellent men, in the happy relationship that you deserve.

If you don’t know what it is that’s pushing them away, then your objective is to figure it out, fast. It’s not something you’re going to have to dig deep to find. Men are simple.

But I suspect you have some idea what the issue is?

[deleted] · 2019-07-29T02:18:21+00:00

How do you handle it?......... like an adult. Lol.

Men are simple.
Either 1. you are seeking outside of your 1-10 attraction level. (Stop) 2. You can't pick a good man. (Pick better)(smarter) 3. You can't keep a man. (And you know exactly why that is)

Do you need any further help?

tintedlipbalm · 2019-07-29T17:35:53+00:00

You haven't provided enough info on what is it that you're doing that's so misguided. But ask yourself this: What sort of traits would the man you want desire in a woman? Do you offer anything close to what that man would want? Probably not, so work towards acquiring those traits.

A quick look through your submitted history makes me think you're dating out of your racial group and that might make things harder for you. Men fuck women of many races but might want to settle for a woman of their race to introduce to their parents and have children with. It's a harsh truth you have to account for, even if there's exceptions recognize that it's an uphill battle and therefore not the best strategy to become sexually available to these men.

A further look through your history indicates that you have a bunch of red flags about you, such as struggling with mental illness, self image issues and insecurities that lead to undesirable and frankly alarming behaviors that border on stalking. Please read the sidebar, self-reflect and come back with a more coherent view of what you're working on to improve yourself.

Title	Men want relationships just not with "you"--how do I handle this when people say this to me?
Author	throwawayakkount2099
Upvotes	8
Comments	13
Date	July 29, 2019 12:58 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWives
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