Red Pill made me depressed.

mikerate · 2019-08-04T02:11:36+00:00

Anger phase... just approach girls and build social circle

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VasiliyZaitzev · 2019-08-04T04:04:53+00:00

I look young and I feel I will never stand a chance at having any of these women. It makes me depressed.

Fun Fact: The top 5 hottest women I've ever banged? They all came after I was >30.

And you only have a chance at fucking them. TRP gives you the skills, but there are a lot of variables. You need to learn to fish with a net and not a pole. Identify the pool of girls - for me that's tall, submissive introverts - who like you and pull dates/mates/plates from that pool.

The fact is you never stop competing. You need to go out make approaches and burn that anxiety out of you. After 25 approaches, you won't be nervouse anymore. After 50 you won't care how hot a girl is and after 100, you will be thinking "What is the most fucked up thing I can say to this girl and still pull?"

yellowfart · 2019-08-04T07:12:21+00:00

I'm worried I'll get shot down.

That is because you place your ego over everything else. Much more comfortable to remain invisible than being rejected, isn't it?

Now imagine, you have to approach random strangers, to tell them they won 100.000$, would you be scared? Nah. Now just imagine you worth that much to a woman.

thewrecker8 · 2019-08-04T03:02:49+00:00

I see so many hot women on the street but I just can't approach because I'm worried I'll get shot down. I look young and I feel I will never stand a chance at having any of these women. It makes me depressed

You're in your own head. Who says you can't approach because you're afraid you'll get shot down. What is she going to do? Punch you in the face? Start small if you have to. Start taking to everyone. Men and women. Don't do it with any end goal in mind. Just get comfortable talking to people. Could be for a few seconds. "Hey man that's a really cool shirt. Can I ask where you got it?" Excuse me those are really cool shoes, my sisters birthday is coming up they'd make a great gift. Where did you get them?" Just start chatting up people. Make a game out of it for yourself. If you think you can build on a conversation go for it. If not a simple "great thanks, have a good day", etc will wrap it up.

You're giving up on something you haven't even tried based on the second part of your statement. Like Michael Jordan said "you miss 100% of the shots you never take". You're looking at these women as a goal. You see a hot chick you want to get her number, fuck her, whatever. Who cares if you don't? There's literally billions more on the planet. And remember regret is always worse than rejection. If you're likely never going to see this person again who cares what happens in a brief conversation? Just don't be a weirdo when you're interacting and most likely you'll get a polite no thanks, I have a boyfriend, etc. Then bow out like it's no big deal. Don't get dejected if it happens something like "no problem take it as a compliment, enjoy your day" and move on.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2019-08-04T04:01:14+00:00

I see so many hot women on the street but I just can't approach because I'm worried I'll get shot down.

Approach Anxiety: Faint Heart Never Fucked Fair Lady

-Take a Deep Breath, and Make It Count.

Abundance Mentality - Why It's Good For You.

-If You Really Want To Know, Go And Build It.

Uncle Vasya’s Guide to Outcome Independence or Welcome to Level 99 DGAF

-How to Rock Out With Your Cock Out.

YouNeverKnowAnyone · 2019-08-04T03:33:02+00:00

Pee on women

wanker7171 · 2019-08-04T03:15:23+00:00

I just can't approach because I'm worried I'll get shot down

You won't get any better if you aren't brave enough to fail. I can write an essay about all my cringy fails but I can also write an essay about all the beautiful girls I've closed on. There's no cheat sheet to success. Fixing your approach and improving your social skills is a load of trial and error.

spiceb0ss · 2019-08-04T04:03:55+00:00

Join a frat

adamxchris · 2019-08-04T04:33:50+00:00

theory of probability Just talk to them That's all

[deleted] · 2019-08-04T04:44:16+00:00

Keep going it's working.

RainySeasonInPH · 2019-08-04T05:43:18+00:00

Congratulations, you made it to Stage 4. Just one more to go.

Red_Vet_Garageman · 2019-08-04T13:03:18+00:00

I'm 34 almost 35 fuckin 22 and 23 year olds on the regular. If I can do it so can you.

Make a plan and stick to it, assess, readjust as needed. Right now I'm in my business building phase. Put in work and the reward will come.

Don't make pussy your priority. They smell it on you. They smell the desperation.

Good luck

boy_named_su · 2019-08-04T16:32:55+00:00

I cried when I found out Santa Claus wasn't real

So 2 in a year. that's nothing

That's a good start bud. 2 is not nothing

I just can't approach because I'm worried I'll get shot down

This is entirely natural. Courage is action in spite of fear. Don't be fearless, be courageous. Read Day Game by Roosh, he walks you through it

Title	Red Pill made me depressed.
Author	UnluckySand
Upvotes	23
Comments	23
Date	August 4, 2019 2:01 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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