I'm a dude in my mid 20's at my last semester at university. I have met plenty of women during my time here but I met my actual ex girlfriends outside of college (meaning they didn't go to my university).

Anyway, most of us know that women got it really made in college/university. They got options. A LOT of options. We all know this. Unfortunately it depends on your major if you will meet a lot of women or not. Unfortunately there were not a lot of women in my major (computer engineering) so women were not abundant. But when I did meet a girl, it is competitive as fuck. One girl I met in a computer science class that I had to take. She seemed to like me a lot, but when I saw her at some times, she would be walking to class with a different guy (and not the same one usually).

Does anyone here hate competition ? I just fucking hate it so much. It makes me unattracted to the woman I'm pursuing and I don't know why. I guess it is because it makes her look slutty ? I have always hated competition. There was only one scenario where I won a competition and that was from an online app a few years ago. That girl became my girlfriend and she said she had 100's of messages.

What do you all do about competition ? This post is for guys like me who are in college still. I have been told I am attractive, but I'm not a 10/10 (I'm considered a 7/10 about) so I'm usually not the first pick. Maybe I can be 2nd, 3rd, or 4th option if I get lucky (but I'm not really lucky if I am not first option, lol). Does anyone else hate competition as much as I do ?