I’m fairly decent at getting sexual on first dates, have them on my lap, making out, blowjobs etc. But I’ve been feeling recently that doing so on first dates, while the girl may reciprocate, might incline her to not see me again, or not for very much longer.

I don’t have full on sex the first date, but normally get blowjobs or have their boobs out. Would me holding back the first time we meet with this increase my chances of second/more dates or might that just be them getting “too comfortable” or getting bored of me?

Pretty much trying to find a way to see girls consistently rather than first date only where we make out and she blows me. They usually ask me what I want and I A&A but they push for an answer and I just say nothing yet, going with the flow. Also sometimes say nothing serious and be out right honest about it.