To make a long story short, I met this girl at a frat mixer last semester and we hit it off pretty quick. We spent most of the night together, cuddled, etc until we got back to my room. She then explains how she's seeing some guy off and on and he's playing a lot of games but because of that she has to sleep on the floor (weird, I know). She comes over again the next night with two of her friends and ends up puking in my bathroom. I spent the rest of the night taking care of her and then stopped talking to her after all of that. We talked a little bit over the summer and then last week she started hitting me up again.

After going out to the bars on Saturday night, my friends and I decided we wanted to keep the party going and invited some people over. I invited the girl and some of her friends; she said her friends were too tired but she still wanted to come over. We end up clicking again and hit it off like we did before. She talked about taking me as her date to an upcoming date party (which was last night) and was basically telling me everything I wanted to hear. We end up cuddling and she initiates sex, undresses herself, undresses me, etc. And is extremely enthusiastic about everything were doing, telling me all of the things I want to hear etc. Due to me drinking a little too much, I was struggling to stay hard but nonetheless she seemed to still really be enjoying herself and the night. The next morning, I wake up to her texting someone and she says "why are boys like this?". Then proceeds to talk about how shes arguing with the same guy from last semester. While he was playing mind games with her, she went and slept with another guy, who happened to know the guy she was talking to (she didn't know this at the time). The guy finds out and ends it with her (this all happened over the summer). I walk her out, she gives me a big hug, says thank you and leaves. That night, we snapped back and forth a couple times and I tell her I had a good time the night before. She opens it, no response.

Last night, she messaged me out of the blue; we were both out at the bars but separate places. She asked me where I was and we got into a whole conversation about whether or not I'm a country boy (Our Uni is in the south, so we have a lot of country bars mixed in with clubs, etc, she mentioned being at one of these country bars and thats why the topic came up). We carried the conversation on for a while (till 3 or 4 am) and then I passed out. Haven't heard back from her since that convo. Did she use me for a hookup? Is she stuck on the other guy? I'm just confused as to why she'd hit me up again like she did after completely disappearing on me.

I haven't caught feels or oneitis and I still have other girls in the rotation. However, I haven't dealt with this situation before and because of the bs happening I'm not sure if I should even consider something further with her or even plating her. Just confused asf as to whats going on here.