I want to share a point of view (for you philosophy buffs, I am arguing for the truth of determinism) that completely and totally destroys the bitterness and anger associated with swallowing the red pill. In fact, this point of view goes further than that in giving you peace of mind: if you believe what I am about to tell you, it is irrational and almost impossible to hold hatred toward another human being, even the most hypergamous slut monkey, the most pathetic beta white knight, or the most sadistic criminal. It is an incredibly liberating feeling, and has brought much happiness and success to me both personally and professionally. Once you accept the undeniable reality I describe below, all of the noise, all of the bullshit, and all of the self-doubt disintegrates, and you are left only with a profound sense of confidence, assurance, and ownership over your life.

The ultimate paradox of our lives is this: you had no conscious control over the person you are today, and yet the "choices" you make on a daily basis accumulate relentlessly into the life you are living at this very moment. You did not choose your parents or your genes - you did not choose the time and location of your birth. The string of events that shaped you as a person following your birth also were not of your choosing: who you met at school, or how competent your teachers were. Every event cascaded inexorably toward the present moment, shaping you into the man you are today, and your choices simply do not enter into the equation at any point. The choices you think you make are actually the result of prior causes (upbringing, genetics, etc) over which you had no control. You do not even have control over your own thoughts. They simply appear in your mind, like the words on the screen you are reading right now.

If you walk back the timeline of your life, you cannot deny this fact. I can hear the objections now: "That's not true - I was dealt a bad hand in life, but I set my mind to it and now I'm a millionaire with hot bitches everywhere!" Tell me this - where did your willpower and grit come from? The answer is that you are very lucky to possess those traits, but you cannot claim personal credit for them. The person who lacks willpower did not "choose" to be a lazy tub of shit; deep down, he wishes he possessed your drive and determination, but he is profoundly unlucky to have the brain of a lazy fuck. This is not a nature vs nurture argument - whether he was born with those traits or whether they were hammered into him by his upbringing, or both, is irrelevant. He simply did not "choose" to be a pathetic loser.

Thus it makes absolutely no sense to be angry at women for being hypergamous etc. They are nothing more than self-interested neuronal weather patterns, executing the behavior programmed into their brains through a combination of genetic and environmental factors. I see new TRPers talk about being "disgusted" with women once they realize their true nature. This is quite frankly an infantile way of looking at the problem. Are you "disgusted" by the way a wild animal attacks humans? Of course not. Stop acting like humans are any different - we are simply acting on instinct, even in moments where it "feels" like we are making independent decisions.

The same applies to criminals - it seems fairly easy to recognize that murderers sitting in prison were dealt a bad hand. Some combination of bad genes, bad parents, and poor educational and economic prospects led them down the path to personal ruin. Their "wrong choices" were nothing more than instincts executed in a sub-optimal environment. Even if you believe in god, the argument remains the same: the murderer is profoundly unlucky to have the "soul" of a psychopath.

Thus the biggest blue pill lie of them all: free will. It doesn't exist guys. Stop being a whiny bitch about the actions of others. That is the true red pill awakening.

So now you accept that the concept of "free will" is basically bullshit - what now? Just sit back and let your life unfold? Not quite. Ironically, knowing this allows you to take control of your life. The habits you create will have a lasting and significant impact on the future state of your brain. You know the drill: eat right, lift, and game women. As many have said here, fake it till you make it. It WILL change your mental wiring and bring you happiness.

Until then, recognize that women are nothing more than complex algorithms. Why hate a computer program? Just bang her and move on. Or not. You're free to do you as please. Or rather, you're free to do that which occurs to you to do. Understanding the difference will release the animosity from your mind, make you more confident, and instill a sense of humility once you DO achieve personal success.

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