How many of you found TRP after dating a BPD?

deathhandmachiavelli · 2019-09-15T13:36:56+00:00

What is a BPD? I checked the glossary on the sidebar and didn't find it.

Do you mean borderline personality disorder?

No, I found the TRP through LIFE and personal experience.

I stumbled onto the "red pill" discussions after figuring this all out on my own. I figured this out during my last couple years of high school.

FreshPrince0fPersia · 2019-09-15T13:39:00+00:00

Yeah, I did. Was with a BPD girl for 4 years. Used to entirely resent her after we broke up, but realized I was far too passive & essentially a beta, so can understand how easy I was to manipulate.

Pimpcool420 · 2019-09-15T13:37:19+00:00

Yep. She went into therapy for a month and came out to blitz Tinder+Nightclubs+Instagram; I started spinning plates and had analyzed the whole relationship by the time I bumped into her in public.

TehJimmyy · 2019-09-15T13:56:21+00:00

me. Having ADHD and being with BPD girl is nightmare

eliteomegabc · 2019-09-15T17:57:54+00:00

Yup, she was always in a different mood we just split 4 weeks ago. She dumped me I was very beta, she suffered from anxiety and depression so I felt like if I did anything to upset her it would just make it worse. So she lost too much attraction from me being too nice. She also was bipolar and had unrealistic expectations in life, like houses that are multi million dollars that she doesn’t even make over 50k a year. So she basically wants a guy who’s making millions a year.

Shittybillyall · 2019-09-15T21:02:26+00:00

Found it before and it's probably the only reason I didn't have the psychological truama most men have after dating one. Stay the fuck away.

SonOfMammon · 2019-09-15T14:26:52+00:00

I have BPD. After finding TRP I found out I argue like a woman, bending the rules of logic to "win". My ex hated arguing with me, now I understand why.

hmsthinkingmeat · 2019-09-15T21:33:52+00:00

Kind of, she was NPD which is like BPD but still fucks your head and life up in the same way.

lifeonlockdown · 2019-09-16T01:50:41+00:00

Me. NPD/BPD.... Hard to tell because they’re similar and she wouldn’t admit it even if she had an official diagnosis. But she was (is) one of those.

What a train wreck. She now has 2 kids from 2 different guys (neither are mine) (one baby daddy is an abusive raging alcoholic, he has NO IDEA what’s about to hit him between her cluster B and the state, lol) and a third simp /tampon/ Cuck who she’s not even “dating” just using to get out of the alcoholics house has just put the two of them into “couples therapy”.

Plus she’s post wall. She used to be 19 and had that crazy/hot look (when I met her), now she’s 34, fat and hit the wall at Mach 1.

faustian_talos · 2019-09-18T20:00:32+00:00

I sure did. Fckng crazy bitch.

Title	How many of you found TRP after dating a BPD?
Author	catriel25
Upvotes	18
Comments	18
Date	September 15, 2019 1:21 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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