I'm gonna list a couple short situations with a couple ladies last year.

Me: So I don't really take you for the relationship type since you're pretty open minded to a lot of things.

Girl 1: yeah, I'm just not looking for any relationships I kind of just go with the flow with everyone I meet.

I stopped talking to her after this day, and she sent me a long message about how I'm an asshole for ghosting her? She sends nudes and fucks a ton of guys, and even said she wasn't the relationship type but I was supposed to keep her around?

Girl 2: I like you because you aren't into me

Me: OK

Stopped talking to her, she goes and fucks my old friend which I didn't care about but she sends me a message saying that I never talk to her anymore and it made her upset with me. Why the hell would I even want to talk to you if you get off by me not being interested, it makes me even more not interested.

Girl 3: Yeah I'm just not looking for anything serious I'm young and I feel like I should just explore a bit you know?

Me: OK

Stopped texting her, and her last message was asking me why I haven't hit her up in awhile. She even fucked the guy she told me not to worry about but I'm wrong for not crushing on her?

Girl 4: *Flakes on me on our second date. I start talking to her friend to ask her where she is and the conversation leads to her slutty past about her fucking a ton of guys, I hate gossip, but the most important thing about this is that her friend informed me that she had 3 STDs in the past year or so. So I cut off contact

Girl 4 leaves me a voicemail a week later: I saw your photo on in stage an with that bitch today, you haven't even bothered to call to check up on me or anything for a week and you're out with (girl) again? I should've known you would have pulled this pathetic petty shit you aren't shit anyway.

I'm not listing out these stories to sound full of myself I promise, and I don't want to spread any one narrative about all women or anything. But in all of these situations last year, the attitude that I received from all of these women were similar, they were shocked that I wasnt interested in them for trivial reasons, and then had a degree of anger towards me. Somehow I was the bad guy in all of them. When a guy isn't enough we tell him to get better, when a girl isn't enough we tell her to love herself, men ain't shit, and that she's flawless the way she is. These are all girls in their early-mid 20s so maybe this doesn't surprise many of you but these girls openly say/do these things and proceed to be in disbelief that I don't want to see them anymore. Why do women take rejection so horribly if their own standards are so high?